When did you lose your virginity?

Reply 80

ygraineaustin

14,to my gay best friend

Reply 81

Treeroy

18

Original post by SoggyTractor

I think only vaginal sex counts as losing your virginity. Anal/oral don't.

Um, what? I'm gay, I have slept with plenty of men - anal sex - but never a woman; and I don't have any plans to do so - to have vaginal sex - in the future. If this means I am a virgin and always will be... well, I think it renders the term a little meaningless.

(edited 10 years ago)

15

18 nearly 19

???

15 nearly 16 and in a long term (2 year) relationship he was 15 too and a virgin. perfect time for me, no regrets.

Reply 86

sparklingTurkey

Original post by Anonymous

we both want to wait :smile:

said no guy ever

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Tomorrow

Original post by toonervoustotalk

Does any one remember the exact time. Eg at 1 36am

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I'm not even 100% sure I remember the date, let alone the time!

Reply 89

kdizzle97

15

14, I was way too young and had no idea what I was doing..

Reply 90

donutaud15

22

Original post by toonervoustotalk

Does any one remember the exact time. Eg at 1 36am

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first week of October, sometime around midnight

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Reply 91

Treeroy

18

Original post by SoggyTractor

Yes.

What puzzles me is how, at the age of 11, one would even know how one would go about gay sex. I didn't even know about straight sex at that age. But everyone develops differently.

We hadn't been taught about it, no. But we knew what sex was, and knew of gay sex since all kids know what a gay person is. We knew that we had anuses.... I'm not sure what else you need to know in order to try it? :/
Anyway, yeah, it was fairly natural. I'm sure gay people thousands of years ago didn't need to be taught about it in order to do it either.

Reply 92

chukster97

17

Original post by Anonymous

14

It amuses me that you stay anonymous

Reply 93

Jaegon Targaryen

2

Lol at the people in this thread , arent we beyond a time when having sex seems bad ? I don't get why people are so proud to be virgins.

Age 18.

14. At least it was in a committed relationship... I know that sounds completely ridiculous at 14 but we were an item for 9 months before we had sex, and a lot of stuff happened before sex (bases and all that).

I regret nothing, it's just the way the cards fell. I have learnt from it and subsequently much wiser to relationships than many of my friends at university :smile:

Anon please, embarrassing admitting such a thing :eek:

Also, because I have to... :sexface:

Reply 96

SoggyTractor

12

Original post by Treeroy

We hadn't been taught about it, no. But we knew what sex was, and knew of gay sex since all kids know what a gay person is. We knew that we had anuses.... I'm not sure what else you need to know in order to try it? :/
Anyway, yeah, it was fairly natural. I'm sure gay people thousands of years ago didn't need to be taught about it in order to do it either.

I didn't say you needed to be taught it. And yes, I was aware I had an anus at the age of 11, but the thought of having a penis in it didn't occur to me until the age of 14 or 15. I first heard the term 'homosexual' and 'gay' at the age of 12ish but didn't realise what they got up to in the bedroom until much later. It's all about different rates of maturing, as I've said.

Reply 97

Treeroy

18

Original post by SoggyTractor

I didn't say you needed to be taught it. And yes, I was aware I had an anus at the age of 11, but the thought of having a penis in it didn't occur to me until the age of 14 or 15. I first heard the term 'homosexual' and 'gay' at the age of 12ish but didn't realise what they got up to in the bedroom until much later. It's all about different rates of maturing, as I've said.

Huh, the term "gay" was banded about aplenty in primary school for me.

And you haven't answered my question of whether I'm going to be a virgin for the rest of my life just because I have sex with men, not women. Do you still stand by your belief that vaginal sex is all that counts? :s