I'm a guy who was very much a late bloomer in life. I went on my first ever date, got my first ever kiss and lost my virginity at the grand old age of 24. Before that I had done absolutely nothing. I was of course Hand Solo: Masturbator of the Universe but that wouldn't really differentiate me from any other guy out there.
The first time I had sex I couldn't finish and after that (had sex maybe 20-30 times with my gf before we broke up, most of it being condomless due to her pill usage) I found it really hard. We'd hump for a solid half an hour at least, often times much more before I finished. And that was only if I went absolutely bezerk with my thrusting, otherwise it just wouldn't work for me. Sometimes I just gave up after a while as it was getting annoying and I was tired.
I was always under the impression that virgins can't keep the lid on at first and over time learn to hold themselves back but with me it was the complete opposite and I hate it.
Oral and handjobs were even less stimulating than vaginal intercourse. I couldn't care less about getting head. I tried not masturbating for a while but that had minimal effect.
Now that I am single again, I am a lot less motivated to go out and find a girl(friend) since that magical promise of sex, which films and television had always taught me was the greatest thing in the world, turned out to be not so amazing after all. In terms of pure pleasure, my hand reigns supreme.
What I'm wondering is this:
1) Is it normal for guys who are sexually inexperienced (and perhaps started it later in life) to experience this issue?
2) For those who have suffered from it: did/does it ever get any better? Or am I doomed to a lifetime of unsatisfying sex (assuming by some miracle I convince a girl to go to bed with me)