Hi guys, in a pretty awful situation at the moment and i need your help!
The past few months i have been seeing/dating this girl, i knew fairly straight away that she had come out of a very long and serious relationship. However, we took it day by day and long story short ended falling for each other acting like a couple and having the most amazing time possible.
Then completely randomly she hit me with a text calling it all off because she 'isnt ready' for what we have, she wanted to be ready but she isnt. She told me how happy i made her, how much she cared about me, how she didnt think she would fall for someone so quickly etc'
Long story short, she told me she still wasn't sure about it all, i told her she needed some space so i left her to it for a couple of days. Problem being was she continued trying to text me and carry on conversations. After she had a think we met up and had a chat, basically ended up saying she wanted to be with me but she was just scared about it all being completely new & the last relationship is a big thing to get over. I agreed and told her i understand im not pressuring you into anything and we can take it as slowly as you want. Saw her briefly on Sunday and she hadnt really made her mind up about what she wanted to do.
Now i dont want to pressure her because she will run a mile if i pressure her for an answer, i know she will... My question is, what do i do now? Obviously its unfair on me to keep dragging it on and on, ive taken a step back and she continues to try start conversations. So i wont lie im pretty confused, do i send her a text giving her some space? or one reassuring her we can work through it all together?
HELP