Are there any girls 23+ who are virgins but NOT out of choice?

first one, thank you!
how old are you if you don't mind my asking?

I'm still 22 though ill be 23 at the beginning of feb.


Very unlikely ill lose it then,,ill be neck deep in work

do you reckon it's out of choice that youre a virgin?

ill be 23 in march...*shudders*

No

But i do have standards...i'm not gonna sleep with someone who i'm totally not attracted to

My looks aren't appealing to my age group, so i get it.

lovely.
so far only two men have posted saying that there are virgins my age, but ive yet to see proof.

Well, no point in mincing words is there? One thing is I don’t think ugliness, in terms of someone's face, is a particular factor.

I know a couple of female involuntary virgins aged in their late twenties, and some more, even attractive girls who have only had sex once or twice. My own girlfriend didn't lose hers until she was 22 and a half, though that was more out of choice.

As I say, things blur in your mid- and late twenties when hormones calm down, because it becomes harder to say, even for the person themselves, whether apathy is the result of a free choice or of learned helplessness.

Practically they're all virgins.

Im not sure I agree with that, what with my own personal experience and guys on here criticising ugly girls and rating them out of ten. no guy is going to sleep/ go out with someone theyre not attracted to.

Sure but the bar for attraction is usually pretty low, past that all about personality and stuff. We don't generally ask for much. As for the rating out of ten that's just bravado, it's the guy version of girls going all hysterical over Johnny Depp or other heart-throbs du jour.

This thread is sickening...

nevertheless I think its fair to say I haven't passed the bar of attraction since no one has ever showed any interest in me.
I don't think its bravado, I think guys have higher standards than they will admit to.

Have you tried showing interest in anyone else?

Of course there will be. Despite the fact that possibly easier for girls to call up random sex, anyone with an ounce of wit want a relationship, or at least a caring partner. And unless your in the attractive set physically and/or personality wise it is quite feasible to reach your 20s without find this.

bump.

How many guys exactly have you told you liked and asked if they liked you back?

lovely.
so far only two men have posted saying that there are virgins my age, but ive yet to see proof.