Need Help tonight Please!!!

HAHAH! Hint Hint

You're one of those cuuuute little girlies

Keep the game tight! Dont let the rope go slack!

What's that supposed to mean? Well I'm naturally playful and it's quite cute to play hard to get a little with the guy you like But you guys are right where to draw the line. I guess after each miserable failure you learn to get a bit closer where that line is!

But I don't want this to be a failure! I'm quite depressed about this whole thing. Should I call him, or is just asking for humiliation. And what would I say anyway "er.. I know I've been stringing you along, but now that you're ignoring me and it's not working anymore I'm want to treat you right" ??? That's really lame.

Anyone else has experience of getting a guy back to liking you? Afterall he can't just completely lose interest just like that??

urmm...when it comes to talkiing about feelings and emotions...etc...i talk to guy... soo you can't generalise that men aint bright in this catogary... us girls r jus very confusing..and expect them to read our minds... which may i add is impossible!

Hi guys,

basically have been dating this guy for a few months but always played hard to get, never let him know how I felt etc. He was really keen and did all the pursuing so this worked for a while. However since term started he's just changed. Now he almost never calls me anymore or txt, though I see him in groups and we talk on msn. When we do have contact I still feel as if he's interested and he definately flirts, but he just doesn't pursue anymore. Furthermore he's acting much harsher towards me, like the old manipulative ploys that us girls have just don't work with him anymore, he'll just say no.

Now this is freaking me out, cos actually I really like him but feel like I'm losing him. Is it cos I played too hard to get or he just suddenly lost interest? It seemed though that he really liked me! I should add that just before this change there were a couple of occasions I think he seriously tried to tell me he loved me but I just kinda ignored it/passed it as flirtatious frivolousness. And after that at parties I kinda acted badly, flirted with other guys and didn't show him attention..

I don't know. Now the other day I see him going to see a movie alone with another girl, and he treats me like a totally ordinary friend. And I'm just so jealous! Especially as this girl is a complete minger and dull into the bargain

What should I do? is it he's just lost interest so I should move on, or he's hurt and thinks I'm a nasty, manipulative woman and has decided not to let me control him anymore, or he's hurt and needs some sign from me? I'm considering just calling him and explaining everything and asking him what's going on without all the games, but this is very against my usual 'play hard to get' instincts. Also isn't it a bit desperate/ like his playing hard to get is working. Dunno whether to do it today or let time pass..

so complicated- will never play any damn games again

Thanks for reading thus far, and HELP!!

im beginning to think we play far too many mind games nowadays... back in the day it was like, daughter i have found you a suitable husband with 20 acres of land and 1000 pounds per annum to his name. You shall marry this Sunday

be direct... phone him... tell him... or over msn if its easier and i suspect it would be... just be completly straight and tell him how you feel and tell him that you were playing hard to get and took it too far...

How about "Ug!" [BOSH!] Caveman stylee.