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i feel so hurt and used? help?

So i am 20 and have never been approached by a guy or ever dated one. Anyway, this one guy came up to me and introduce himself to me and suddenly being quite nice to me so i thought well, finally someone who is interested in me. Naturally, i felt quite happy about it and my confidence increased a little bit (i have low self esteem by the way)

But then, I recently found out that there was an intention he approached me and be all nice to me, which makes me realise that he is probably 99% just faking it all along anyway.

So right now i actually feel hurt that i was kinda used and cheated for a little bit, i actually start liking him for a few days (thank god i found out his intention just after 2 weeks). Now i feel all stupid, he probably thinks i am such a fool anyway. Not only i feel stupid, i feel like i am worthless too, like will i ever get someone to like me in a romantic way? My best friend is so gorgeous she has guys lining up for her it just makes me so jealous sometimes.

Reply 1

shawn_o1

You're not worthless. You just need to learn and be more wary. (This coming from a scam victim btw)

Reply 2

Icebaker

Hey come on, please don't feel worthless or stupid. You're not a fool. I'm sorry this happened to you, but it's not your fault. Don't worry about this...he's in the wrong here, not you. It's quite a common occurrence actually, people get used quote often (whether it's for sexual purposes or any other favours). Learn a lesson from this experience. You can't trust everyone by default. You'll find that a lot of people are decent and sincere, but there'll always be those sly ones who take advantage of people. I can assure you that you will find someone who is genuinely interested in you in a romantic way, don't give up hope just because of this bad experience. There are good people out there and you'll find a decent man soon.

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