I like to feel inferior in relationships

I like to feel like my partner is superior and better than me and I have to earn his love because then it feels like a challenge.

It makes me feel bad because I should act more like a feminist but I want my man to be superior to me in the relationship.

Is this weird?

Reply 1

yabbayabba

Superior how? Why do you feel a relationship has to be defined in these terms?

Reply 2

Kevin De Bruyne

To each their own, I suppose.

Reply 3

TheGoldenBean

Original post by yabbayabba

Superior how? Why do you feel a relationship has to be defined in these terms?

In terms of anything: achievements, intellect, popularity, attractiveness. So that I know he's out of my league and that he is better than me, otherwise I get bored. If he compliment me it is nice but I don't like it if he compliment me too much. I don't want him to be needy

Reply 4

yabbayabba

Original post by TheGoldenBean

You sound like you need a self-esteem boost, to me it's not particularly healthy tbh.. You're going to attract the kind of man who abuses women, and you don't want to get in that situation.