Suggestions for improving my look? :/ (pic)

Right, so... I'm really fed up. This may come across as a bit of a pathetic thread, however I don't generally wear make up aside from a tiny bit of eyeliner, mascara and blush if I feel like absolute crap. I stay away from foundation and all that jazz.
So I'm not just here for a 'ooh make me feel good about myself please' sort of thing.

I am genuinely getting quite down at my self for my lack of style in the way of grooming. 24, I do engineering, and I generally don't like my appearance so I tend quite often to make as minimal effort as possible. Linked to being a MASSIVE introvert.

I would absolutely love to have beautiful blonde hair which I could dye like pastel colours in, or something like that.
However, it's very thick, and very very dark. And my eyebrows don't allow much room for nice natural looking dyed hair.

So as someone who has very minimal experience in enhancing personal appearances, can some girls give me some advice?

Do you think I should dye it lighter? Also, I am quite aware I need to lose weight, that shows in my face I know. Another HUGE addition to a lack of confidence!

Halp?

As an introvert myself (although, I’m male), I sympathise with you. However, I think you’re being very critical of yourself. Perhaps you may even look better with your natural hair colour! Don’t be so hard on yourself, honest.

Although, if you are unconvinced. Do whatever you need to do to be comfortable with yourself, I guess.

You are naturally quite beautiful, so I wouldn't personally suggest make up to enhance your look. Maybe lipstick?

You should get a hair cut, however. Perhaps, similar to this, with umbrae:



Also, there are plenty of fashion blogs on how to dress slim. Just experiment with what you're comfortable with.

Are you fishing for compliments? Surely you might engineer with your appearance / style, change something into something else, but clearly you have this genetic thing going for you and so you will remain attractive.

You might want to lose weight but to be honest you're the perfect size in my opinion. Do not go blonde because you are too Mediterranean / middle eastern and it will look ridiculous. Also you are far more attractive like this to Nordic men.

OP is more attractive than the woman from the picture in my honest opinion.

I'm a male and my suggestion would be rather than full blonde hair, have like darkish hair at the top and near the ends of the hair have it blend to a different colour like light brown / goldish / blondish. I've seen that on some girls, looks quite nice.

I'm not comparing nor suggesting that she should look like the women in the image. It's what I think would suite her.

If making a few changes makes her more confident about herself, then surely that's good?

I'm a male and my suggestion would be rather than full blonde hair, have like darkish hair at the top and near the ends of the hair have it blend to a different colour like light brown / goldish / blondish. I've seen that on some girls, looks quite nice.

No that looks awful. Don't corrupt the OP.

I see lots of potential your skin is immaculate and make up is also kept at minimum which is good. However your weight seems to be your biggest obstacle more specifically you carry lots of facial fat. Chubby cheeks and a bit of a chin. In the process of losing you weight you will not only lose the facial fat but your body fat as well.

Your only issue is weight once you lose the excess fat everything falls into place.

Tldr; you fat.

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