The I-SOC (Islamic Society) (XI)

This is in fact the the methodology of the Khawarij, the modern day Salafi's have always held the position of rebellion against the ruler a dangerous matter to be avoided.

Never heard this before in my life - it might just be cultural?

Neither had I! There's the possibility, but my aunt and uncle are quite religious, so I'm not sure.

"Wahabism is a cult started by Ibn Taimiyyah - 'anyone who isn't with me is a kafir'..."

Does it really say that?

Watch from around the 13th minute to about the 16th, it's somewhere between there

I shall.

this is disgusting behaviour and shameful

I have a question.

When my aunty talks about her husband she always uses the terms 'He' or 'him', never by his first name. My mum told me it's respectful, and islamically you shouldn't refer to your husband by their first name.

Is this true and if so, why? Like I get that you should respect him and stuff, but surely he should respect you too? And if he doesn't mind using his first name there's no problem right?

Is the husband superior to his wife?

Religious people aren't always exempt from cultural projections of religion Have you tried IslamQA, sis?

The sahaabiyaat (female sahabah) used to refer to their husbands by their Kunya e.g. Abu Abdullah, Abu Usama which basically means Father of (name of child) and I'm guessing conversely sahabi's referred to their wives Umm.. (mother of). I know it's sort of similar in other parts of the world such as the indian sub continent even though they don't use 'Abu' or 'Umm' but something to the same effect in their respective languages.

I don't think it's sinful or anything like that, it's more the customs and traditions. If it leads to disputes or problems with the inlaws and stuff like that just adopt the way of the Prophet and his companions, because Islam is silent on this matter and there's nothing wrong with a tradition (If it's not prohibited/warned against) and if theres not going to cause any problems between a man and his wife. It's only because of the recent rise and radical feminism and people trying to critique the most smallest of things.

Thanks for that. I was just curious, I would ask my aunty myself but it might be a bit awkward.

Where are you from ? I see it's quite common in sub continent to not call husbands by their name.