Why are men like this?

You picked a bad one.

Move on.

Reply 2

Munrot07

18

I had the exact same experience with a girl who said she didn't like a guy, the next day dumped me and started dating him. It happens. I know it hurts now but it may lead to someone better. If she hadn't dumped me when she did I wouldn't have met my current partner and she is more perfect than I could have believed. I had a bad experience with a bad person, it happens, but it lead to an amazing experience with an amazing person. It hurts but in the long run you will find someone better.

Reply 3

channies

17

Well you could look at it that he's confirmed you made the right decision to break up with him. I know it's not much of a consolation, but it's something I guess.

Reply 4

ES95

Not all guys are like that, some like him evidently are two faced and fundamentally not nice people. Don't put too much worry on it, there will be someone out there who is right for you, there are decent guys out there and i am sure you will find one :smile:

Reply 5

You dumped someone for speaking to another girl? And now you're angry? This makes no sense. What's the problem with speaking to other people? Why do you care about who he's having sex with anyway, you dumped him and he moved on. I don't see a problem here.

Reply 6

william walker

Original post by Anonymous

I wanted some advice TSR

I was seeing this guy until I found out he was also speaking to another girl.

When I confronted him he said there was nothing in it and they are just friends, I didn't really believe him so I broke up with him. Now I have broke up with him, him and this girl he was speaking to have started dating! What a surprise!

I'm upset and angry at him for doing me like that. It's like obviously my suspicion was right, so he lied to me.

I don't know TSR, maybe it's this heat making me feel a little crazy but I feel a bit crazy today and angry with him :/.

He told me he loved me and was so lovely to me, apart from that and I miss him and it hurts to think of him with another girl :frown:

Well you are obviously and capable person to understand what he was doing and drop him. So well done. Nothing you can do about the way you are feeling, it will pass with time. :smile:

Reply 7

swagyolo420

16

Cus we are all *****

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Reply 8

username1846791

Some men just go from one girl to another. I'd just move on if I was you. You made the right decision to break up with him then I guess, move on and find yourself a better guy

Reply 9

Kevin De Bruyne

21

It could be different. He could have been telling the truth, and he's rebounding by starting things with someone else, or it's now more sensible for him to pursue things given that you aren't in a relationship anymore. I can't say which is more likely,

But you're hurt. Been there. Give it some time, it'll numb down, you'll move on and that'll help you in finding someone else.

Reply 10

bluemax

16

Both sex do this. He probably wasn't interested in you. But yeah that's no reason to lead someone on. Move on, you'll find someone better

Reply 11

username927016

20

Some guys are like that I guess, they maybe do it for a ego boost or just for a bit of fun. I'm sorry that you got hurt but really not all guys are like that. Hopefully you'll find a much better guy soon! :smile:

Reply 12

bittr n swt

He used you so now you have to get over it.

Not all men are like this so pipe down

Reply 13

Original post by bittr n swt

He used you so now you have to get over it.

Not all men are like this so pipe down

How did he use her? All he did was speak to another girl, I don't see why that's a problem. He assured her that there was nothing in it but she shot him down and dumped him. Didn't even give him a chance. The only reason he rebounded is because he got dumped, now for some reason the thread starter is angry?? Makes no sense! She was the one who did the dumping! Does that mean you're only allowed to talk to one girl at a time (lol) and talking to more than one girl at a time means you're using people?? And all of a sudden if you get dumped, you're not allowed to start seeing someone else?? I think not.

It'd make more sense if her ex made a thread saying "girlfriend dumped me for just TALKING to another girl".

Reply 14

bittr n swt

Original post by Liquid Harvest

How did he use her? All he did was speak to another girl, I don't see why that's a problem. He assured her that there was nothing in it but she shot him down and dumped him. Didn't even give him a chance. The only reason he rebounded is because he got dumped, now for some reason the thread starter is angry?? Makes no sense! She was the one who did the dumping! Does that mean you're only allowed to talk to one girl at a time (lol) and talking to more than one girl at a time means you're using people?? And all of a sudden if you get dumped, you're not allowed to start seeing someone else?? I think not.

It'd make more sense if her ex made a thread saying "girlfriend dumped me for just TALKING to another girl".

but he wasn't just speaking to another girl, they were having an affair

Reply 15

Original post by bittr n swt

but he wasn't just speaking to another girl, they were having an affair

An affair? The thread starter didn't mention any affair, just said her ex was talking to another girl. No sex, no kissing, none of that. She got angry and dumped a guy just for talking to another girl, how strange.

Wait, let me read the rest of this thread...I'm clearly missing something.

Reply 16

That's what you get for dumping someone who has options, especially when you dump him for such a strange reason. How is her ex looking like the villain in all of this? Weird thread.

Reply 17

zippity.doodah