Hi everyone!
Ive just finjshed my first year at uni, and I feel like I barely have any proper friends. During the first term before Christmas, I made friends eith some people on my course, and a group of 10 of us formed. (7 girls, 3 boys). This was the first friendship group I have been part of since primary school really- I didn't have many friends in secondary school. I was so happy to finally be part of a group. However, after Christmas, things started to change. No kne fell out or anything, but the group kinda split up a bit, so we rarely went out together and did things anymore. I found myself alone. Everyone seemed to be changing as well, as before christmas thry all seemed quite similar to me, but then they turned all indie and druggy. I have nothing against people like that at all, but it meant that all of a sudden i was being left out of things. They started not inviting me to things, and even all went on holiday together without inviting me. They'll still talk to me, but only if I make the effort and start the conversation first. They'll never start one with me.
Now im going into the second with frake friends and thats it. Ive got a few acquaintances from a sports society I'm a memeber of, but thats all. And the trouble is, they've all got their own friendship groups. One of my flatmates from last year is really nice, but not that similar to me. I still speak to her, but shes not really a close friend. There are other people from my course I havent spoken to much, but again, they're in their own little cliques now, and you don't get to talk much to other people in lectures.
All I want is one or two really close "best friends" who i can rely on always, and also have a wider group of friends. How can I achieve this? How do I make friends with new people in the second year when they've already got their own friends? Please help me!
Thanks i advance