How can i get away with not telling her im a virgin?

So i know for a fact that as soon as i see her naked im going to blow my load. We have been going out for a week and she is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me. The thing is she is experienced and she told me personally that she hates unexperienced guys. She keeps bringing up sex and i agree but find ways around it. This could be the greatest moment of my life and basically my question is how can i last longer in bed?

Reply 1

Mpagtches

16

Whenever she brings up the subject, say, "Quick! Look over there!" :smile:

Drop a tactical.

Original post by Anonymous

So i know for a fact that as soon as i see her naked im going to blow my load. We have been going out for a week and she is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me. The thing is she is experienced and she told me personally that she hates unexperienced guys. She keeps bringing up sex and i agree but find ways around it. This could be the greatest moment of my life and basically my question is how can i last longer in bed?

Don'tbe so beta man, just tell her

Reply 4

Reue

20

Inbetweeners style trip to the loo beforehand

Reply 5

mollyxrose

14

You really won't be able to get away with it - she'll know immediately that you're not experienced. Save embarrassment and just tell her beforehand.

Reply 6

Motorbiker

21

Just soldier on through.

Original post by Reue

Inbetweeners style trip to the loo beforehand

Yea, that worked well for Simon...

Reply 7

Mutmit287

22

Original post by Anonymous

So i know for a fact that as soon as i see her naked im going to blow my load. We have been going out for a week and she is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me. The thing is she is experienced and she told me personally that she hates unexperienced guys. She keeps bringing up sex and i agree but find ways around it. This could be the greatest moment of my life and basically my question is how can i last longer in bed?

Not telling her now will just cause more problems, be honest and tell her the truth! she will appreciate your honesty and together you can then work things out!

Reply 8

nickmurp

7

Pre-**** about 30 mins before the deed

Reply 9

Motorbiker

21

Original post by Natalierm2707

Not telling her now will just cause more problems, be honest and tell her the truth! she will appreciate your honesty and together you can then work things out!

Girls will not realise.

She's hardly going to be a porn star professional that's had sex with hundreds of guys...

Just don't do anything stupid and you'll be fine.

I'm sure you've watched enough research to know what goes where.

My only advice, it's lower than you think...

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Reply 10

Mutmit287

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Original post by Motorbiker

Girls will not realise.

She's hardly going to be a porn star professional that's had sex with hundreds of guys...

Just don't do anything stupid and you'll be fine.

I'm sure you've watched enough research to know what goes where.

My only advice, it's lower than you think...

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Girls will realise... she will realise!

Its not just that, If she means a lot to you and you want this relationship to last you should be open and honest from the start.

she is going to think your an idiot if you lied about being a virgin just to protect your ego, it doesnt look big, it just makes you look silly.

Reply 11

Life_peer

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Original post by Anonymous

So i know for a fact that as soon as i see her naked im going to blow my load. We have been going out for a week and she is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me. The thing is she is experienced and she told me personally that she hates unexperienced guys. She keeps bringing up sex and i agree but find ways around it. This could be the greatest moment of my life and basically my question is how can i last longer in bed?

Remember that in the middle of the 20th century, teenagers had to fight hordes of Nazis and Japanese, sleep in cold muddy foxholes, uncertain of whether they'd survive until the next morning because mortar bombs were landing just metres away. Now compare it with your ‘problem’ and either just tell her like a man or mangle the midget an hour before you engage the lady.

Good luck, private! Dismissed.

Reply 12

Alba2013

14

It's not only about "lasting", she will know instantly so just tell her.

Reply 13

Mankytoes

10

Original post by Motorbiker

Girls will not realise.

She's hardly going to be a porn star professional that's had sex with hundreds of guys...

Just don't do anything stupid and you'll be fine.

I'm sure you've watched enough research to know what goes where.

My only advice, it's lower than you think...

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If she doesn't realise, she'll think he's terrible. Better a virgin, you pick it up pretty quick.

Op, you seriously have to tell her.

Reply 14

MAINE.

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Original post by Anonymous

So i know for a fact that as soon as i see her naked im going to blow my load. We have been going out for a week and she is literally the best thing that has ever happened to me. The thing is she is experienced and she told me personally that she hates unexperienced guys. She keeps bringing up sex and i agree but find ways around it. This could be the greatest moment of my life and basically my question is how can i last longer in bed?

If she has explicitly said she hates unexperienced guys then I dont think telling her is the best option.

Knowing what to do is actually the easy part - there are loads of articles out there on common & best ways to please women sexually. On that note, I suggest you use a lot of foreplay and oral on her. Most women get off more from oral/clitoral stimulation than penetration/vaginal stimulation, so if you you read up and work on your oral that will go a long way to satisfying her....and I know this because my gf is in love with my tongue :lol:

Lasting for a long time is the difficult part and is a skill it will take a while to develop. However, if you do come quickly, it's not a big deal as:

1) on average men only need 2 minutes of stimulation to reach orgasm (at least 15 minutes for women), so expecting any man to last for significantly longer than that is unrealistic

2) if you do come quickly, just quickly clean off, and then go down on her/use foreplay to keep her stimulated until you think you can get hard enough again to continue (the hornier you are to begin with, the easier it will be to get hard again)

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

OP

So i forgot i even posted this and i went ahead without telling her and had sex. She didn't ask if i were a virgin at all and we engaged in a lot of foreplay beforehand. When it came to her wanting to touch me for the first time after id been giving her oral for the first time she gave me oral. Straight away i blew my load with in like 10 seconds of you performing. She generally gave me a smile and got some tissues from the night stand and cleaned it up for me. Im guessing she must of just thought i was aroused from pleasing her so she didnt question it. Do guys who have been pleasing the girls tend to blow there load quite quickly like in my situation. I was literally giving her oral for about 15mins so i must have been doing something right. Anyways straight after i came i was literally ready to go again and i told her this and she put a condom on me. I started performing it bit more foreplay working my way from her lips down to down on her and then had sex for the first time. judging by my clock on my night stand i must have lasted for about 4mins but again more or less straight after i was ready to go again. If anyone reading this had the same original problem i once had i would not tell her and read on plenty about foreplay and engage in a LOT of it. In my case and maybe most cases i must have satisfied her enough through foreplay that the short intercourse moments must not have been a big deal for her. Tell me if you have gone through a similiar faze and tell me what you think to my first experience, i dont think it could of gone much better!

Reply 16

Anonymous #2

Original post by mollyxrose

You really won't be able to get away with it - she'll know immediately that you're not experienced. Save embarrassment and just tell her beforehand.

I don't know if it's any different for guys but I didn't tell the guy I lost my virginity to that I was a virgin until after we had finished and it actually took him a minute or two to believe me because in his words I was 'so good' so I wouldn't automatically assume they'll know straight away!

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