My now ex gf (21yro) had a self-professed propensity to fall in love hard and very quickly. After a fairly relaxed 2 months of "seeing" one another, we became involved in an official relationship. Very quickly she seemed to develop strong feelings for me, or at least claimed to feel such. "Soulmate", discussions of our future, a reluctance to abort a child we might acciedentally conceive, talk of moving to Australia together etc. According to a friend of hers, she spoke of me and our relationship in such terms to them also, so seems to have believed it herself.
In spite of this, after just 2 weeks of uni, she got together with another guy, telling me that she was considering dating him. Obviously, I was at a loss.
I knew that she had had a complicated family history - her father leaving at a young age - and was prone to dramatic behaviour. I also knew that she had been with about 12 guys before me (by age 20), with one of my friends telling me that she was "crazy" and "burned through boyfriends".
So it's left me wondering,is she just the kind of girl who develops infatuations which can fade very quickly? Whilst I don't believe that I was in love with her (I think that takes a great deal of time), I certainly cared for her very deeply and could not have ended things, let alone found myself considering a new partner for a great deal of time afterwards. I'm a fairly level headed guy, and older at 24yrs, so perhaps it's a maturity thing. Has anyone encountered this? And what does it say about the person? I find myself wondering whether I was simply fulfilling a need for her, and whether it was never a reflection upon me...