I am confused about my sexuality

Maybe he just wasn't the right person, you may not have been sexually attracted to him enough? If you struggle getting wet then you can always use lubrication or maybe practice on yourself first though masturbation to see what you like and what gets you aroused. The stigma around lgbtq+ has been around for years and you may be afraid to experiment, you could try with a girl and discover that you really like it. I hope this helps!

That’s the issue I don’t like masturbation because it is boring for me and gives me pain for month which is why I don’t do tbh. He always told me that I must be underdeveloped :/

So I don’t feel anything for boys or girls. I’ve had a boyfriend but it went down hill since I couldn’t have sex because I wasn’t getting wet enough and he got fed up of waiting for the day. He told me that I should get sexual feeling when seeing somebody but I always thought if you go out with somebody it’s because you really like spending time with them and like some of their interests. What he said has really confused me and now I can’t understand why people do go out with each other

Did you and your ex bf ever try engage in foreplay? maybe you weren’t turned on enough hence why you weren’t wet enough

sexuality is a spectrum and it’s personal to you, so i wouldn’t feel comfortable telling you where you are on the spectrum. i’m demisexual tho so i can relate to not getting sexual feelings just by looking at someone of any gender; but i may get sexual feelings when i look at someone if i have an emotional connection with that person, and i enjoy sex with them. have you ever had a crush on a friend before? maybe you just haven’t met that person yet. but yeah, i know how it feels to wonder why you think differently. you’re not ‘underdeveloped’ btw

I would with him but he wouldn’t with me because he said it was too much hard work