The mentality im talking about is the supposedly hard work ethic. Ive been set on applying oxbridge for a while now but recently ive started to have doubts, thankfully my application isnt in yet so i still have some deliberation time. Anyway, to the real issue.
I've spent most of my academic life coasting through and doing very well, at least until this year when ive actually decided to work hard (Otherwise my A2's may decide not to come out nicely and i will fail to get into any nice uni's). Anyway, i know any university steps up the workload considerably to anything a student is previously used to, but i guess oxbridge does even more so.
I'm not adverse to hard work, at least i don't think i am, but i can be quite lazy - although i have the desire to work hard and suceed with my future degree. The problem is i am not 100% sure i will enjoy the ever so clichéd "work hard play hard" mentality. I have read many posts about how oxbridge is ever so stressfull with the short 8 week long terms being basically just one elongated deadline. How much more work intensive is it than many of the other universities, mainly the 'topish' ones? Now i know that sounds bad as in order to go oxbridge you need to be prepared to work extremely hard, which i think i am, but I'm not entirely sure.
Also, how much does it differ from the 'normal' (i use that word lightly) university experience? Obviously you are being taught by the leading professionals in your subject, the subject of my choice being Geography, but what about the social side of things? I really want to enjoy my time at university but i get the feeling from many things ive read that its so work intensive that sometimes its impossible - is this a general pattern in universities?
Is it perhaps worth going to a 'easier' (again a term used very lightly) university as getting a 2:2 at oxbridge is still a 2:2 and closes many doors, whereas it must, in theory, be easier to get a 2:1/first at other uni's. Dont get me wrong, im not really looking for the easy way out, but if i arrive and find i cannot actually cope with working and my top level of working is coasting, just about doing enough, then im a bit buggered.
Finally, do you find that the longer holidays are boring and seem to be a waste of time? I get the feeling that once ive had a taste of freedom i wont enjoy being pushed back into my hometown life and will be dying to come back to university - you spend more weeks out of oxbridge than you do in it if my maths is right? I guess there will be alot of work to do, but still...
I understand my questions are pretty hard to answer, hell they are pretty hard to distinguish from the crap ive written, but im tired and feeling quite ill so there's my excuse ^^.