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1.
Never ever put any boyfriend or husband above yourself. Always put yourself above them. Slightly above them at times. But you should always be the number 1 for yourself. And it's fine if they're the same. Win wins are great. Win losses are bad. When you put him above you that's too much of a win loss.
2.
That's a red flag if he video calls his parents every day. That's too much. Loving your parents is great. But obsessively video calling them is too much. If I had a child that was video calling me every day I'd tell them to do it once per week and then drop it down to once a fortnight.
3.
He has ignorant parents. **** 'em!
4.
It's complete cobblers that you have nobody! You have everyone on your campus at uni. It's all one big loose family.
5.
Your ex has demonstrated that he's a lazy good for nothing alcoholic. You're better off without him. With hindsight you should have dumped him. But with this being your first romance it's understandable that you lacked perspective.
6.
It gets worse. He strangled you! What a despicable evil man he is. He should be locked up in prison. I reallly really hate domestic bullies like him.
7.
Go to all your lectures from now on. You're in your first year. All you need to do is pass everything. Get 40% or above. Which should be straightforward enough for an intelligent woman like you. Even with the emotional upset you're feeling now.
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When you wake up tomorrow morning you will feel better about the situation than you do now.
9.
If I knew you in real life I'd be giving you a combination of mickey taking out of your ex and your ex relationship, along with some hugs and kisses on your forehead, along with some tough love along the lines of "Shape up girl!"
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If I were in a similar situation to you, I'd be using every ounce of the logical part of my brain to act like a Marine from Full Metal Jacket to get through this and move onto a happier chapter of my life.
1.
Never ever put any boyfriend or husband above yourself. Always put yourself above them. Slightly above them at times. But you should always be the number 1 for yourself. And it's fine if they're the same. Win wins are great. Win losses are bad. When you put him above you that's too much of a win loss.
2.
That's a red flag if he video calls his parents every day. That's too much. Loving your parents is great. But obsessively video calling them is too much. If I had a child that was video calling me every day I'd tell them to do it once per week and then drop it down to once a fortnight.
3.
He has ignorant parents. **** 'em!
4.
It's complete cobblers that you have nobody! You have everyone on your campus at uni. It's all one big loose family.
5.
Your ex has demonstrated that he's a lazy good for nothing alcoholic. You're better off without him. With hindsight you should have dumped him. But with this being your first romance it's understandable that you lacked perspective.
6.
It gets worse. He strangled you! What a despicable evil man he is. He should be locked up in prison. I reallly really hate domestic bullies like him.
7.
Go to all your lectures from now on. You're in your first year. All you need to do is pass everything. Get 40% or above. Which should be straightforward enough for an intelligent woman like you. Even with the emotional upset you're feeling now.
8.
When you wake up tomorrow morning you will feel better about the situation than you do now.
9.
If I knew you in real life I'd be giving you a combination of mickey taking out of your ex and your ex relationship, along with some hugs and kisses on your forehead, along with some tough love along the lines of "Shape up girl!"
10.
If I were in a similar situation to you, I'd be using every ounce of the logical part of my brain to act like a Marine from Full Metal Jacket to get through this and move onto a happier chapter of my life.
1.
Never ever put any boyfriend or husband above yourself. Always put yourself above them. Slightly above them at times. But you should always be the number 1 for yourself. And it's fine if they're the same. Win wins are great. Win losses are bad. When you put him above you that's too much of a win loss.
2.
That's a red flag if he video calls his parents every day. That's too much. Loving your parents is great. But obsessively video calling them is too much. If I had a child that was video calling me every day I'd tell them to do it once per week and then drop it down to once a fortnight.
3.
He has ignorant parents. **** 'em!
4.
It's complete cobblers that you have nobody! You have everyone on your campus at uni. It's all one big loose family.
5.
Your ex has demonstrated that he's a lazy good for nothing alcoholic. You're better off without him. With hindsight you should have dumped him. But with this being your first romance it's understandable that you lacked perspective.
6.
It gets worse. He strangled you! What a despicable evil man he is. He should be locked up in prison. I reallly really hate domestic bullies like him.
7.
Go to all your lectures from now on. You're in your first year. All you need to do is pass everything. Get 40% or above. Which should be straightforward enough for an intelligent woman like you. Even with the emotional upset you're feeling now.
8.
When you wake up tomorrow morning you will feel better about the situation than you do now.
9.
If I knew you in real life I'd be giving you a combination of mickey taking out of your ex and your ex relationship, along with some hugs and kisses on your forehead, along with some tough love along the lines of "Shape up girl!"
10.
If I were in a similar situation to you, I'd be using every ounce of the logical part of my brain to act like a Marine from Full Metal Jacket to get through this and move onto a happier chapter of my life.
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