My friend, we’re all women, had been groping girls in nightclubs. Obviously if that was a man it would not be tolerated at all, yet she seems to have gotten away with it for a while without me knowing (since Halloween apparently according to other friends but we all thought it was a one off thing and because she was drunk). We’ve been out twice in the last week- both times she got too drunk- she has eating disorder so struggles a lot with mental health issues and has turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism. Anyway- the first night she forced herself onto a friend of a friend kissing them and had to be stopped by another friend- I didn’t know this because I was off with someone I met in the nightclub. The second night we went out, two girls came up to me and my friend telling us what our friend did (grabbed another woman’s breasts and made another one uncomfortable asking inappropriate questions). This is the point of which I feel guilty; we walked her home and told her what she did was wrong, we made sure she was home safe first, then we reported her to nightclub staff and she’s now been banned from her favourite nightclub and possibly every other one in out uni city. I feel awful and guilty but I do know what we did was right? Other friends said we did the right thing but I’m worried this friend will become even more mentally unstable. She’s agreed to go back into therapy and we’re taking space from her at the moment as everyone’s shocked by her behaviour. Earlier on the second night we went out she made me uncomfortable but I thought nothing of it- she was touching my back and ass throughout a drag performance at a nightclub and sort of cornered me in her flat at pre drinks when I was drinking my drink- she didn’t make any sexual advances per say but it certainly made me feel uncomfortable how close she had gotten.
Overall, I’m worried my friend will go off the rails more and that we overreacted? I think I know deep down it’s the right thing to do but I’m just worried. Thanks