I've known my friend for more than a decade and we became best friends around 5 years ago. I care about her a lot, but I've felt strange talking to her for a while now. Whenever I try talking to her about personal things, I feel as though she doesn't believe me or doesn't care - she listens but I just feel so hopeless talking to her and she gives me such a blank look ; like I have to prove the severity of an issue to show that it's real - I feel like I'm talking to a wall sometimes.
The other day , I was telling her about the fact that my dad was in a car accident and that I was losing my job because my workplace was closing down - her response? She listened for a bit and then cheerfully carried on talking about herself and all the fun things she's been doing. I felt horrible, because i felt ignored. I'm not like this all the time and we talk about a lot of things; studies, friends, family, jobs and practically everything!
I've been there for her plenty of times too and have been the only person to stick up for her when a classmate was being mean to her; but I wouldn't ignore her like she did to me. I've noticed she always makes excuses for when I make plans to meet up with her and has cancelled last minute on multiple occasions and only wanting to meet when we're in uni and she has no one else to sit with.
I understand that she's not responsible for making me feel better and that she doesn't owe me anything - but as her best friend I just feel sad to be treated like this and I don't know what to do about this friendship.