Went out for night with my friend and then got a therapy session

Do you think I was in the wrong? She has now blocked me?

I have experienced sexual assault by men.. I was talking quite explicitly about my embarrassing sex life and framed it as banter. It was in a restaurant, and she gave no indication that she was uncomfortable. The evening was very pleasant, otherwise, We kind of disagreed a bit; she was concerned about me being isolated.

Later, I had a message of her basically saying that she was reducing all contact. She mentioned that she was going through a difficult time and that she felt really uncomfortable with my man-bashing and sex talk. She said that i was opening myself up to have sex with awful men who could use me. She said that i should look for counselling.

I thanked her for her honesty and apologised. She liked the comment about the help.

Upon reflection, II’ve found that her comments were actually inappropriate. She’s only met me on one night and making assumptions about my life. She has no idea about the men I sleep with. I told her that she was out of order. She said she was sorry and asked me if wanted a further response. I said no thanks. Do you think I was in the wrong? She has now blocked me?

That's a lot to handle if that's the first time you've had a who is part

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Whilst I have full sympathy for what you have been through, and think it may have been inappropriate for her to make a judgement about your life like that (though I would also argue it depends on how the conversation went - perhaps she thought you were asking for an opinion, we idon'thave enough context here to comment), I do think even "banter" about sex life the first time you meet someone is a bit much...

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Do you think she was being invasive to soon?

Yes, I acknowledge and appreciate that. But she gave no indication that she felt uncomfortable, and she was actually laughing and smiling, so I just continued. And it was on the restaurant on a Saturday night.