Dating this guy long distance

I am dating this guy (not officially yet) for 4 months already kinda long- distance (2-3 hours away) which means we see each other on the weekends, sometimes every 2-3 weeks or on holidays. We always have a great time together but I always feel a bit like i am putting more effort in seeing him than he does. It’s that every time i went all the way to go see him and he never came to my town yet. I have to mention that my family owns a small house where he lives, so that makes it easier for me to go there. But still i always feel like he could just once in a while come see me. Also what bothers me is that almost everytime before a weekend I am very unsure wether to go there or not. A lot of the times we or more he doesn’t make plans to see me. And he wouldn’t even ask me to go there as of this weekend as well. And once i told him how it bothers me and that i also want to see him wanting to see me in person. I have to say he almost always reaches out first when texting, so it’s not like he doesn’t want contact with me. Also we shared our feelings to each other as well as what we want out of this relationship, which is seeing where it goes with the distance before becoming official. Does this sound like he is leading me on? Because it really stresses me out as of i never know if i can plan something with my friends or not because we don’t plan in advance. Should i end it or just hope it will get better?

I am dating this guy (not officially yet) for 4 months already kinda long- distance (2-3 hours away) which means we see each other on the weekends, sometimes every 2-3 weeks or on holidays. We always have a great time together but I always feel a bit like i am putting more effort in seeing him than he does. It’s that every time i went all the way to go see him and he never came to my town yet. I have to mention that my family owns a small house where he lives, so that makes it easier for me to go there. But still i always feel like he could just once in a while come see me. Also what bothers me is that almost everytime before a weekend I am very unsure wether to go there or not. A lot of the times we or more he doesn’t make plans to see me. And he wouldn’t even ask me to go there as of this weekend as well. And once i told him how it bothers me and that i also want to see him wanting to see me in person. I have to say he almost always reaches out first when texting, so it’s not like he doesn’t want contact with me. Also we shared our feelings to each other as well as what we want out of this relationship, which is seeing where it goes with the distance before becoming official. Does this sound like he is leading me on? Because it really stresses me out as of i never know if i can plan something with my friends or not because we don’t plan in advance. Should i end it or just hope it will get better?

I am dating this guy (not officially yet) for 4 months already kinda long- distance (2-3 hours away) which means we see each other on the weekends, sometimes every 2-3 weeks or on holidays. We always have a great time together but I always feel a bit like i am putting more effort in seeing him than he does. It’s that every time i went all the way to go see him and he never came to my town yet. I have to mention that my family owns a small house where he lives, so that makes it easier for me to go there. But still i always feel like he could just once in a while come see me. Also what bothers me is that almost everytime before a weekend I am very unsure wether to go there or not. A lot of the times we or more he doesn’t make plans to see me. And he wouldn’t even ask me to go there as of this weekend as well. And once i told him how it bothers me and that i also want to see him wanting to see me in person. I have to say he almost always reaches out first when texting, so it’s not like he doesn’t want contact with me. Also we shared our feelings to each other as well as what we want out of this relationship, which is seeing where it goes with the distance before becoming official. Does this sound like he is leading me on? Because it really stresses me out as of i never know if i can plan something with my friends or not because we don’t plan in advance. Should i end it or just hope it will get better?