hi - i met a girl at the gym around 3-4 months ago, and we got on well so i asked for the instagram and she gave it to me, i dropped her a DM and we started talking and i then invited her out for a drink which she read but left me on ‘seen’ and ghosted.
almost 4 months later she finally responded saying.. “sorry i didn’t mean to ghost i just forgot to reply but i appreciate the invite but i’m too busy so no thank you, but what’s your gym schedule? we can hangout at the gym if our schedules match?”
not sure why she would reply after almost 4 months of ghosting tbh at that point you might as well just not reply.. tbh i forgot she even existed and i have no interest in her anymore in fact i can’t even be bothered to reply.
so i’m not sure if i should reply and if i do what i should reply saying?
perhaps the reason she decided to reply is because we do walk past eachother at the gym a lot, but since she ghosted me i’ve never made eye contact with her and i just do my own thing and avoid her at the gym, i don’t make it awkward or anything but if i see her i will just keep to myself to respect her space given she ghosted me.. so perhaps that’s why she decided to reply because she saw me so often after and maybe she felt awkward seeing me after ghosting but idk