The argument and the point you’re making aren’t actually that clear.
I agree that compared to the past, the importance and value of a degree has gone down . As it’s been made more accessible, and more people graduate with degrees the market for them gets slightly saturated and it’s less of a differentiator. Also, schools do have a disproportionate focus on pushing students towards university, instead of encouraging alternative routes such as apprenticeships . Partly because of the prestige and reputation that comes with more students in uni and also funding implications with this.
Again, as more people get degrees in society, they become the norm and the value and recognition of the work to get them does get a bit ignored or forgotten or taken for granted. But a degree is still a sign of learning, challenging yourself and for first-gen students a real accomplishment for the whole family and change for the future.
Saying that, why would a degree is STEM be useful or more useful that a degree in non-STEM subject? (From what you said). Both are needed.
You’re right, working and earning from a younger age is actually more beneficial in a lot of ways than going into a degree straight from school. But neither works for everyone, and each person has to find what works best for them.
You’re 2nd point contradicts your argument because you’re questioning why anyone would go to uni, but then say better to work and then go uni after, so which is it?. You can absolutely go university at any time, not just when you’re 18/19 and actually getting life and work experience can help you out soo much more with your degree and beyond.
A lot of job descriptions do ask for degrees, but they’re not always needed for the actual job in reality. But it is a good tool to shortlist and exclude candidates for some employers, esp. if they get a lot of applications. Especially if there ar people without a degree.
University has a lot of benefits, outside of the actual degree and the skills you develop for their around critical thinking, writing and analysis, debate etc. University wise the benefits include growing personally and finding yourself by venturing on your own (inc if you live at home or on campus.) . Making friends and getting away from the only place you’ve known in your local area. Socially, making friends and working with people you essentially didn’t spend 5/7 years with from secondary school, sixth form/college .
There are some professions where a degree is a prerequisite and essential I.e. medicine to become a doctor or law for lawyer, but otherwise it’s a grand experience for you to be yourself and shine.
I feel like your frustrated but not sure if you just want us to actually make the decision for you or something about if you should go uni, or go elsewhere.