My son has autism and other dx. We went through DSA and he qualified for taxi that he shared with his sister.
He struggled with transition so we paid ourselves for a room for him at uni for between lectures.
After Christmas my son stopped going to lectures due to anxiety and just being overwhelmed but told no one.
Only now has it all come out that the uni have thrown him off the course for non attendance. He ignored every email he was sent and responded to noone and just sat in his room every day. No one from the uni contacted us. He still has his uni ID. He stopped going to mentoring after Christmas as well.
The faculty clearly told no one in welfare that he had been thrown off the course. Uni clearly also have not informed student finance either so still took the tuition money and my son still paid his main loan.
Son has now told the autism team at uni everything. And then of course me. Son is now suicidal, has seen a GP and is now signed off for 3 months and is on strong medication to get him through the crisis.
Now uni welfare also washed hands of him as he's no longer a student. They've arranged a meeting with the uni finance team for Monday to discuss what happens next.
I am absolutely distraught whilst trying to support my son as best as I can but now am so worried about what will happen with student finance and what is the best way to try and resolve it. Obviously my son in no current mental state to deal with any of this so I need to now try and sort it out but I'm sick with anxiety of what the financial implications are going to be plus still can't believe that absolutely no one from the uni made any actual human contact with him even if it was just to make sure he was even alive!
An appeal has been lodged to see if he can restart in September but that could be weeks before a decision is made and I'm not sure if he will even be well enough to return in September