Why is it so hard to find a partner

These days, like my parents found love very easily

Only if you're ugly

That’s not true I could be ugly yet I have a wonderful personality and heart and yet therefore have a partner myself what bs

OP said it's hard, I added that it's hard only if you're ugly. If you're attractive it's easy

Only if you're ugly

As well as being negative this is untrue. Sure if your very attractive, which is about both appearance and personality, it’s easy to find a partner. Pretty much everyone else has to work for it

Some people have looks and personalities that are undesirable enough that they'll never find someone. Telling someone that they'll be able to find someone if they just try harder is like telling someone they'll be able to fly if they wave their hands around enough.