My son was expelled from uni

My son was expelled from uni due to lack of interest. He doesn't want to go to uni. I don't understand why. We are from Asian background and not having a degree is a big deal. He doesn't do anything keeps playing games all day. No work no nothing.

My son was expelled from uni due to lack of interest. He doesn't want to go to uni. I don't understand why. We are from Asian background and not having a degree is a big deal. He doesn't do anything keeps playing games all day. No work no nothing.

Its ok for him not to go to uni. Lots of people tend to do well without a degree. But its the not working which is the issue now. Hes an adult now and he cant sponge off you forever. I would understand if he was actively looking for work and not getting anywhere, then thats different. At least he would be trying. But not doing anything at all but to play games, I would be saying something. I certainly would not be funding him, he has to earn it.
Is he claiming benefits? if he is he will need to show them hes actively seeking work.

As another Asian, a degree isn't necessarily everything.

The end goal is that your son would excel and do really well in his career, you don't need a degree to do this. Many of my classmates who did not pursue a degree and did manage to become successful working in banks, social care and jobs in a variety of sectors.

Try speaking to your son about his interests and what he wants to do in his life, he may not be ready for university yet or perhaps he wants to pursue a different degree. He could try taking a Gap year before returning to education if wants to or he could try looking into an apprenticeship or working a job in a field that he is interested in.

Try taking him to different education/ career events that may spark his interest and be stricter in regards to his gaming activity - limiting him from playing too much.

My brothers are in the same situation. Although they do go uni, its more like for the sake of our family rather than interest. They are soo lazy anc just play games everyday. I've told them that they need to start working or getting some sorta experience or atleast volunteering if they want to get a job after uni. When I tell them, they get ****ed. Honestly nowadays most boys are like that, all they want to do is just play games 24/7. They need to be shown what the real world looks like. My brothers are stuck in a bubble until after uni, they will soon realise they aren't babies anymore and someone needs to pay bills. They literally don't do anything at all, they just wake play games and sleep, then repeat. Don't know how to socialise with people at all. Can't take a proper phone call, or fill in anymore forms without my support, they are too lazy to even make food and eat. Honestly, i told my parents that they should have kicked them out so they would know how life actually works.

expleed? sounds painful.

He asked us how to claim benefits!! Which tells me he doesn't want to do anything. I his school days one teacher told us he may have asperges syndrome. Could that be the reason

My son was expelled from uni due to lack of interest. He doesn't want to go to uni. I don't understand why. We are from Asian background and not having a degree is a big deal. He doesn't do anything keeps playing games all day. No work no nothing.

He asked us how to claim benefits!! Which tells me he doesn't want to do anything. I his school days one teacher told us he may have asperges syndrome. Could that be the reason