We are four sisters. Two are older than me one younger. My eldest sister is 7 years older than me and second one is 5 year.
They both have not been so interested in studies since school. And their main aim is to get married so my mom has been looking for guys for them (as it’s common in our culture) and they have dated guys too.
I have to this point never really thought about getting married any soon and it’s been in my mind that obviously when my sisters will get married only then my mom will look guys for me. And I have not had a bf since college as I wanted to focus on my studies in uni.
However, my second number sister suddenly taunted me out of nowhere and made fun of me that no guy approaches you haha!! I was in shock when she said this.
Then she taunt many times saying that “we (my elder sisters) get proposals from people living abroad, doctors, engineers” I mean if my mom is looking for them then obviously they’ll get proposals 🙄 and when my mom has not yet considered me and also I don’t want her to yet then why is she taunting me? And what’s the show off in this? I mean these guys are not personally proposing her that she’s being proud of it. It’s actually through a lady that helps people find the right matches and tbh I have never seen a doctors or engineers begging to marry them. And even if it is why is she comparing with me I am like 5 years younger than her.
Not only she taunt me she said to my mom that there’s someone she know of who wants to get married and they are looking for a girl living in London and she suggested to my mom about me and then later on she was making fun of me with my mom that that guy is uncle type and ugly and send proposal for me.
This all really hurt me nd idk how to get over it I mean I don’t understand that when I have never said that I want to get married then why she comparing me with her? And not having bf how does that show that no one approaches me?