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My parents and sister are so very jealous of me. I hate them so bad. They forced me into joining a college just next door so we are not independent. Its kinda good college but according to my scores , capacity and aptitude , i always dreamt of studying a different subject in a very different college. My sister who almost failed high school joined this college three years back. She s at the last of her class in college too ofc. I graduated high school with top marks and i m still in the top 5 or 10 of my class in college. My sister failed a class too in college and got depromoted a year. That same year I joined the college ( very much against my wish ), and my evil mom started saying that her depromotion is somehow cause i jinxed her darling daughter the day i got admitted. The mother and daughter feel that they re great and thinks everyone shud bow to them. My evil mom is completely crazy. She nor her daughter have any friends at all, because they have this extreme inferiority complex that makes them act like they re great to compensate. Now my sis is constantly trying to boss me in front of my friends. She hates me talking to my friends. When i m in class with my friends, she just walks in and starts being like come with me nah, why re u sitting with these people”. Yesterday there was this really fun occasion in college and she came along cause my mom forced her to come with me just to make sure i dont enjoy the function. And this girl kept interrupting whenever i was conversing with my friends - hey idiot wth are u doing here ,i was searching everywhere for u , its time to go home, our transport has come and ofc yeah our car was not yet there,. Then i go back to talk to my friends and again she comes in to interrupt making all my friends feel uncomfortable too. Once me and my friends were playing some game for some fest at college and she just runs to me from behind , slaps me on my head and asks hey idiot what r u doing ? “. I got so embarrassed and I couldn’t even shout at her as I didn’t want to look weird ! Whenever i m anywhere near her and if one of her classmates walk by, she makes a comment like oh stay away from him, he is all the time irritated, be aware, he s stupid “. My mom obvi always supports her. I never really complained, but yesterday i was way too annoyed because even my friends got uncomfortable with this girl’s contant nagging and interruption . And my mom was like dont dare talk about your sister that way again” . I dont know what to do . Next time she comes and interrupts me what should i say so that she goes away ???
girl ur life be looking like a whole msa video at the moment. i suggest u whack the whole lot of them around the face...

nah but in all seriousness if you're struggling at home or with family life you can easily access help if you need it, the number for childline is 0800 1111 who provide help for anyone under 19 and can give you someone to talk to.

im so sorry your experiencing this right now, i hope this helps and life gets better for you!! <3
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Original post by hiimdelishaa
girl ur life be looking like a whole msa video at the moment. i suggest u whack the whole lot of them around the face...

nah but in all seriousness if you're struggling at home or with family life you can easily access help if you need it, the number for childline is 0800 1111 who provide help for anyone under 19 and can give you someone to talk to.

im so sorry your experiencing this right now, i hope this helps and life gets better for you!! <3

I m 19 turning 20 in a couple of months. And i m financially dependent on them, so i cant register a complaint coz i need this degree atleast to get out of here
is this a sixth form college or an actual cambridge college?
Original post by Annonymusanno
I m 19 turning 20 in a couple of months. And i m financially dependent on them, so i cant register a complaint coz i need this degree atleast to get out of here

oh nooo im so so sorry, i didnt realise about ur age. thats such a rough situation ur in. the best advice i can give is to keep persisting and persevere bc sooner or later ur path will right itself. ik that sound so stupid and stuff but like genuinelly if u keep an open mindset. you can also get therapy on sites like betterhelp and other platforms.. im so sorry!

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