I’m an introvert and don’t know how to flirt with women, should I continue workout?

Basically, I’m 29 and never had a girlfriend and I’ve been working hard at losing weight (I’m 5’10 and 190 lbs) I’m trying to drop 15 lbs (or 7 kilos) before asking out another girl since a lot of my rejects are due to me going for pretty, fit girls when I’m overweight. What do you think?

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Original post by Blueskies94

Basically, I’m 29 and never had a girlfriend and I’ve been working hard at losing weight (I’m 5’10 and 190 lbs) I’m trying to drop 15 lbs (or 7 kilos) before asking out another girl since a lot of my rejects are due to me going for pretty, fit girls when I’m overweight. What do you think?

Hey there!

This isn't really any advice, but I was wondering why you only for pretty and fit girls? I understand initial attraction comes from that but after you know somebody, you really stop seeing societal beauty standard in them and are just attracted to them as a person. I guess that is kind of obvious but I just wanted to know, and its your choice at the end of the day.

Being overweight is not ideal either way so loosing 15 lbs should be a good thing. Would you say your facial features are attractive to societal beauty standards? Just maybe a bit of a problem if you only go for the top percentile of women, one solution of course is being VERY charismatic.

Hope somebody else gives you a bit better advice but heres mine.

Have a nice life! (:

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Surnia

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It's good to be a healthy weight, but how does it change you from beng an introvert that struggles to make a connection? Work on meeting people and being more outgoing and conversational.

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Wired_1800

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Original post by Blueskies94

Basically, I’m 29 and never had a girlfriend and I’ve been working hard at losing weight (I’m 5’10 and 190 lbs) I’m trying to drop 15 lbs (or 7 kilos) before asking out another girl since a lot of my rejects are due to me going for pretty, fit girls when I’m overweight. What do you think?

Some tips for you:

Go to the gym
Get your resources up
Become the best version of yourself.
approach more females both on the street and everywhere.

I’m an introvert and don’t know how to flirt with women, should I continue workout?

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