do any other girls feel unlovable?

same age but I dont think I even care anymore it use to crush me but i just moved on

that's fair enough. idk though its difficult for me to move past the idea entirely, i mean i do hopefully wanna have kids some day but you cant really do that without a partner lmao

Problem could be easily solved if you people decided to be theone to approach the men you are interested in.
But since 'oh, i am a princess, i cannot risk rejection. It is too humiliating. Men are robots anyway, i am sure they love getting rejected. Plus they are used to getting rejected, so why should i risk something so humiliating'

Or 'what? men expect women to approach first? GROSS!real men showtheir interest in women by chasing them.'

Anyway, op and all the girls on here who complain about feeling unwanted and allthe what not. Do not worry. Just stay still. Do nothing.
one day your prince will come your way, chase you and ask you out.

what do you mean female as in lesbians

i'm 18, female. have never been in a relationship. no guy has admitted to having feelings for me for about 5 years now. strangely i get a fair bit of female attention lol. i just really struggle to see any guy wanting to be in a relationship with me, ever. i dress nicely and wear makeup, perfume, i do my hair and nails but i'm not very beautiful. i think my voice is annoying too. i'd say i'm fairly smart and have a good sense of humour but i think guys maybe just aren't physically attracted and they can't get over that. i've had guy friends tell me they love having conversations with me and like my style and feel an emotional bond but not one of them has actually liked me in that way. i'm at the point where all of my friends (and they're mostly nerds) have had some dating or relationship experience but i haven't, and it just feels like i never will. it doesn't feel like there is much more i could do at this point to try and make guys interested. i mean, i dont mind it terribly, i could probably find happiness some other way but sometimes it feels like im missing out on a fairly big part of life. anyone in the same boat?

do you think you dress in a masculine way have you ever approached guys you think are hot?

Listen, I know you're not alone feeling like this, there will be a ton of other girls in the same boat. The thing is relationships are difficult and hard, you'll find the one, it'll take time but you'll find him. Would you consider yourself an introvert or an extrovert? My advice is try to push yourself out there more like go clubbing, you are young, have some fun. If you aren't a sort of clubbing person maybe go and volunteer at places where they help people you're age.

Just take your time and be cautious.

Girllll i'm exactly the same situation as u!! Dw about it, ik it feels crushing and absolutely horrible at times but i think the best thing to do is to learn to be confident and love yourself. i have had this advice from so many people and it's honestly the same. you gotta love and find yourself first and have independance and individuality. it sounds so cheesy and stereotypical and trust me i thought this advice was so annoying and crap coz it came from ppl who are in relationships themselves and dont get u but now i get it. You gotta have some faith and love in urself. I get how u feel, u want a boyfriend to hang out with, do cute stuff with etc, i am exactly the same ! And u feel left out but being different doesnt mean it is a bad thing. All great things take time and i am sure u will find someone soon enough. appreciate the good things in life, your friends, hanging out, hobbies you do.... invest in those and it should be all good!
I hope this helps and just so u know, u r not alone! <3 there are millions of girls going through this and feel the same way, everyone in some point feels horrific about themselves. even the hottest girl and guy u know will look in the mirror and think they r horrible. it happens to everyone. But u must learn to accept urself and embrace life to the fullest.
I hope that helps! x

it's a bit more complicated when the guys you have liked have all started dating another girl before you get the chance to say anything...

it's a bit more complicated when the guys you have liked have all started dating another girl before you get the chance to say anything...