Help with a girl

'Good morning, *insert name from her name tag* (or just call her a nice or friendly girl).'
And from her reaction you can see if she wants to talk or not.
Just start a conversation.

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Original post by Kathy89

'Good morning, *insert name from her name tag* (or just call her a nice or friendly girl).'
And from her reaction you can see if she wants to talk or not.
Just start a conversation.

were both walking in passing every morning, i feel like shes interested as she gives me short glances and smiles but I cant force a convo out of her. How about starting off with a morning or hello then the next time she will be expecting a convo?

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Original post by Anonymous

were both walking in passing every morning, i feel like shes interested as she gives me short glances and smiles but I cant force a convo out of her. How about starting off with a morning or hello then the next time she will be expecting a convo?

Sure. It's a good idea.

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Original post by Kathy89

Sure. It's a good idea.

Ok and then the next day keep building up convo....

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Original post by Kathy89

Sure. It's a good idea.

I have not seen her yet but next time I will I will say 'morning' to her and then from there the next time try and build up a convo although how am i supposed to do this with someone in passing?

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I have recently learnt that this girl has moved to another team/department within the hospital so my chances of seeing her again are slim. I found her profile on linkedin....should I add her or is it a creepy move? I have never had a convo with her although I was planning to make a move

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Original post by Anonymous

I have recently learnt that this girl has moved to another team/department within the hospital so my chances of seeing her again are slim. I found her profile on linkedin....should I add her or is it a creepy move? I have never had a convo with her although I was planning to make a move

I wouldn't add her on LinkedIn just because you've never talked to her or know her name so she'd be confused and probably scared off if you suddenly added her.

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Original post by Anonymous

I wouldn't add her on LinkedIn just because you've never talked to her or know her name so she'd be confused and probably scared off if you suddenly added her.

Now that I think about it just before she moved she was giving me 'the eyes' and started to smile every time she saw me, i was planning to approach her but shes obviously moved now so I dont know what to do

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Original post by Anonymous

Now that I think about it just before she moved she was giving me 'the eyes' and started to smile every time she saw me, i was planning to approach her but shes obviously moved now so I dont know what to do

If she was interested then she wont mind me adding her etc......

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Original post by Anonymous

I have recently learnt that this girl has moved to another team/department within the hospital so my chances of seeing her again are slim. I found her profile on linkedin....should I add her or is it a creepy move? I have never had a convo with her although I was planning to make a move

You can.
I mean, you work together, there is nothing wrong with that.

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Original post by Kathy89

You can.
I mean, you work together, there is nothing wrong with that.

We dont really work together and we never spoke we just work at the same hospital and i walked past her every morning a few times and smiled hence why im not sure if i should. If i knew she would be moving i would have approached sooner. How would she react if i add her?

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wisepole

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I had exactly this situation. As was passing jumped a bit clicked my 2 heels, landed on my feet, did a short curtsy and waved at her. She waved back.
3 yrs later she's still my GF. You don't need to walk up to her, talk to her ... just make her smile, a genuine smile. If she likes you, trust me she'll engage. By her smile. Then you can confidently walk up to her and say this "I am XXX and you're?"

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Original post by wisepole

I had exactly this situation. As was passing jumped a bit clicked my 2 heels, landed on my feet, did a short curtsy and waved at her. She waved back.
3 yrs later she's still my GF. You don't need to walk up to her, talk to her ... just make her smile, a genuine smile. If she likes you, trust me she'll engage. By her smile. Then you can confidently walk up to her and say this "I am XXX and you're?"

I did make her smile by smiling at her but im sure shes moved roles so i havnt seen her lately hence why im asking if i should add her on linkedin beating in mind ive never spoken to her. If she was interested in me then she wont mind. She seemed approachable whenever i saw her.

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