Girls, would this type of guy be considered unattractive?

So I'm a mostly indoors person, a homebody. I exercise regularly, like I go the gym throughout the week and cycle every weekend and I also like to go to the cinema and like to restaurants for dinner and stuff.

But most of the time I'll be in my flat playing games, cooking, watching anime/tv shows/etc, chilling with my cat.

Would most girls consider someone like that too antisocial or boring?

I am introverted and shy as a person but I would want to find a gf at some point. I have a few close friends, I am not a complete loner but I pretty much prefer to stay indoors.

it depends what kind of girl you're looking for. if you want a party girl who's social and loving and will talk to anyone, then probably yes. if you want someone who will do all those things with you and is also introverted then no she will love you. every girl is different and at the end of the day you want someone to like you for you and not a changed version of you that you've created. hope this helped! x

So I'm a mostly indoors person, a homebody. I exercise regularly, like I go the gym throughout the week and cycle every weekend and I also like to go to the cinema and like to restaurants for dinner and stuff.

But most of the time I'll be in my flat playing games, cooking, watching anime/tv shows/etc, chilling with my cat.

Would most girls consider someone like that too antisocial or boring?

I am introverted and shy as a person but I would want to find a gf at some point. I have a few close friends, I am not a complete loner but I pretty much prefer to stay indoors.

idk personally id find that hot

So I'm a mostly indoors person, a homebody. I exercise regularly, like I go the gym throughout the week and cycle every weekend and I also like to go to the cinema and like to restaurants for dinner and stuff.

But most of the time I'll be in my flat playing games, cooking, watching anime/tv shows/etc, chilling with my cat.

Would most girls consider someone like that too antisocial or boring?

I am introverted and shy as a person but I would want to find a gf at some point. I have a few close friends, I am not a complete loner but I pretty much prefer to stay indoors.

Ok re-reading what I posted makes it sound as if I am saying introverted girls are *****y or something. Not at all true ofc, I am introverted as well, I understand them completely. It's just more difficult to approach someone like ...myself than it is to approach a girl whose body language is relaxed and she's smiley and so on...

idk personally id find that hot

Hey, no I don't think most girls would consider this to be too antisocial/boring - to be honest, most girls would probably like this as they would be pretty sure you wouldn't cheat...and also I feel as though quite a lot of girls find very sociable and outgoing men quite intimidating (since us girls overthink everything haha).

Obviously, you wouldn't be everyone's cup of tea, but who is? You may feel as though you are 'boring' etc, but at the end of the day that's just your insecurities talking - there are loads of girls that will be into the same stuff as you and enjoy the more 'antisocial' lifestyle. You'll find someone

Dunno, I'm extremely introverted but also very smiley around people and am told I'm very approachable - those qualities are not mutually exclusive!

Your life-style sounds like a perfectly normal tbh. I don't think it would stop you from getting a partner.

same girl

Ngl your posts made me feel infinitely better about myself, thanks so much.

So I'm a mostly indoors person, a homebody. I exercise regularly, like I go the gym throughout the week and cycle every weekend and I also like to go to the cinema and like to restaurants for dinner and stuff.

But most of the time I'll be in my flat playing games, cooking, watching anime/tv shows/etc, chilling with my cat.

Would most girls consider someone like that too antisocial or boring?

I am introverted and shy as a person but I would want to find a gf at some point. I have a few close friends, I am not a complete loner but I pretty much prefer to stay indoors.

Ngl your posts made me feel infinitely better about myself, thanks so much.

Thank you for your response.

I personally don't have a preference because both introverted and extroverted girls can be kind, funny, sweet, smart, etc. If we're talking like extremes here, girls who only ever want to party or socialise then yes I agree, I am not compatible with them. But are most, even extroverted, girls like that?

I guess I'm worried about it because I tend to gravitate towards girls who look more approachable and those tend to be extroverted girls. I do not have crippling anxiety or anything, I am just a bit shy and introverted but like when you try to approach someone, body language is very revealing and Idk, it has always been the case that the girls I approached were extroverts...