lol ladies u do make me laugh!!! tell me about the raging contradiction, sorry for trying too hard, maybe next time i wont bother reading any books or quoting anything at all.......
if anyone wants a full copy of the durham letter for interest, ill email it you..
annabelle- i go the same 'by no means were u not ox material' blah blah too!
thanks for cheering me up all of you! xx