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Girls, can something as simple as a guy's haircut change whether you like him?

Yeah, basically there is this girl at my university who I have been doing some Spanish lessons with, and in return I help her improve her English, because I've always wanted to learn another language and obv. uni is a great opportunity for that.

It also happens to be that this girl is really hot as well. Even though I can't prove anything and nothing has happened between us I think there is a mutual attraction there as well.

When I first met this girl and for the first 3 weeks or so I was seeing her my hair was longer than I normally had it before. I have never actually had it long but it's just that normally I get it cut very short so for me it is.

Because this girl is Spanish it is in her culture that you hug a boy and let him kiss you on both cheeks as a greeting. I noticed however, that when I got a haircut and my hair was really short the next time I saw her she didn't do anything but say hi.

This was a recurring pattern I noticed and I'd never been rude or said anything wrong to her so I figured it could have only been this. I asked my friend and he said its because most guys in Spain don't get their hair really short like I do (I get basically a buzz cut but just with more hair on the top) and so it's not in their culture.

So girls, I'm interested, would whether a boy gets his hair cut long, short, etc actually influence that much whether you find him attractive or not?

Thanks

Reply 1

The Puppet Master

Personally, yes. I'd say it was exactly the same for guys. Look what happened when Emma Watson cut her hair? People always say "Emma Watson's fit - with long hair" Different styles are attractive to different people, my previous partner grew his hair shoulder length and I found it very difficult to remain attracted to him because it simply didn't suit him and I don't tend to go for guys with long hair.

Might not be something personal, maybe she finds guys with longer hair attractive.

Reply 2

tigger01

My ex changed his hair style, i went from being over him to feeling very jealous and wondering 'what if' i got back etc.. i suddenyl was attacted to him all over again and previously his downfall was his hair, now its looking really good.

but no way am i going back there, did massively affect my feelings tho.

Reply 3

Nephilim

Original post by The Puppet Master

I found Emma Watson more attractive with short hair.

Reply 4

Future African game vet

simply....yes...

Reply 5

The Puppet Master

Original post by Nephilim

I found Emma Watson more attractive with short hair.

Well that just backs up my point that different people find different traits attractive. I didn't say no one found her attractive, she could wear a bin bag and still be attractive to me. :h:

Reply 6

Nephilim

Original post by The Puppet Master

Well that just backs up my point that different people find different traits attractive. I didn't say no one found her attractive, she could wear a bin bag and still be attractive to me. :h:

Technically you would be attracted to the bin bag :biggrin:

Reply 7

jtnf

Yeah I think it does make a difference. Personally, I like short hair on men and I don't think I could be attracted to a man with long hair.

Reply 8

The Puppet Master

Original post by Nephilim

Technically you would be attracted to the bin bag :biggrin:

Well don't tell anyone but triple-ply high-density polyethylene just does something to me :sexface:

Reply 9

mir0rb

It's not that long hair attracts me, it's that I usually go for guys that suit long hair. If there was an attractive male with short hair that suited his face shape then I wouldn't turn him away. Perhaps it's just coincidence!