Different sets require different amounts. Previously I had one main set of friends who I met up with once a week and usually just went ''out'' with and then I had people from work or from this c#volunteer experience I had who I met with on rarer occasions.
Now at Uni I have really good friends who I'd ideally like to see once a week or even more sparingly (as in outside of University/day time) but in actual fact they are very meety uppy and if they are not doing anything then they just turn up and my flat. It's not a problem or an issue but I previously didn't realise that some people require so much friends time. I always though being with friends was a ''doing thing'' - go to the movies, going out, going for a meal or doing something ''social'' but for teh past two years I have friends who come round just to do nothing.
I was used to
me ''hey''
friend ''hey what are you doing''
me ''nothing, we can go out tomorrow to xyz''
friend ''cool, i'll let fernando know''
now it is mor like
me ''hey''
friend ''hey, what are you doing''
me ''nothing''
friend ''cool i'll be round in 5 minutes''
I still find this concept hard to work out but we always end up doing something really fun or having a blast just ''doing nothing''
In high school though I didn't like socialising much, even though I had really good friends. I think everyone is different, and especially when you are still in school you'll all be limited by finances, house rules and academic expectation. If you want to do something with your friends then go for it. Suggest it. There is no hard and fast rule about how ''friendships'' work. I would say I'm just as close to those far away friend I rarely see as much as the ones I see day to day.