Not letting your gf wear certain clothes

It's about "under wraps." It's about listening to the most important person in your life and trying to understand their viewpoint. Like I said, if it was another girl who already dressed like that, I would probably feel different.

Whenever she tells me do this or do that I always listen and try to understand her viewpoint.

Sweet Jesus if my boyfriend of three years ever told me that he was worried about me going out in a certain outfit because he didn't want other people to judge him I'd prance around in my knickers in the middle of the street and to hell with him!

Give her some freedom, and who cares what people think? As long as she's not going to clubs naked it'll be fine

Very mature. Only would make yourself look silly. I know you were exaggerating there though

Don't like people perving at her. Girls who dress that way dress for one reason in that manner-to get guy approval.

You should be content looking good modestly.

This is nonsense

We constantly redefine ourselves and a part of being young is experimenting with one's style

Our clothes do not define us and there is no way that a person should allow other people's prejudices to define us either



Do you actually want advice or do you just want to wallow in your own views

If the answer is yes, you do want advice then I would suggest that you comment on what other girls wear ... "That is a nice outfit, would it suit you" for example

when she puts up pictures on facebook she will often ask me first how it looks.

Honestly OP,when the feminists see this,you are going to get killed. Personally,I think she perhaps just fancied a change of style,you have been together for six years,surely her fashion has changed intermittenly over that time period?

Dude alot of these people are giving foolish answers, most likely because they don't have a girlfriend and so wouldn't understand. I believe if she is wearing particularly short or particularly tight clothes then its fair of you to say something. Especially if they are going to somewhere with alcohol and predatory guys (most clubs). Girls dress a certain way to attract guys. Whether they want to act upon this is a different story. Because of this, I think it's perfectly reasonable for you to question it, as it could suggest she is aiming to receive attention or whatever. Its not you being controlling, its a perfectly natural reaction

If you think that a girl wearing demin shorts is a "hoe" with no self-respect then you seriously have issues. It has NOTHING to do with self-respect. Seems like you are just embarrassed by her. That is both unreasonable and worrying for your relationship.