What do you look for in a significant other?

I like a guy who makes as much effort as I do in a relationship as it's a partnership. I also like guys who are:
Good with animals
SMELL GOOD
extroverted
good sense of humour and can make me laugh
Intelligent/intellectual
Honest
Caring
Loyal
Confident but not cocky and arrogant
Nice smile
Cuddly
Taller than me but not by a huge amount
Strong jawline
Good muscles (back, arms, abs etc)

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Retired_Messiah

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I like them alive, ideally.

Reply 82

dogs4eva7

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Someone who loves animals and is genuinely empathetic.
Street smart > book smart.
Wallflower, quiet, mysterious type.
Dark hair & blue eyes.

Reply 83

spv

14

lool. how long do we have?

Spoiler

Reply 84

username1208193

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Original post by saladays

Describe your dream girl/guy!

Personally, I look for:

Loyalty & honesty
Good sense of humour
Kindness and empathy
Varied hobbies and interests
Good values and morals
Looks wise I tend to like guys on the lean side, more skinny, less muscly

Pretty much the same in a nutshell except I'd change the last part. Looks wise, I like girls who aren't extremely skinny. e.e

Reply 85

saladays

OP

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Original post by SubZero~

Pretty much the same in a nutshell except I'd change the last part. Looks wise, I like girls who aren't extremely skinny. e.e

I didn't mean extremely skinny or anything, I meant slim :-)

Reply 86

username1208193

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Original post by saladays

I didn't mean extremely skinny or anything, I meant slim :-)

No no I agree. I was disregarding your preference in us guys. cx But yeah, slim would be a better way to put it. Thanks!

Reply 87

MonsoonFlower

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Original post by saladays

Describe your dream girl/guy!

Personally, I look for:

Loyalty & honesty
Good sense of humour
Kindness and empathy
Varied hobbies and interests
Good values and morals
Looks wise I tend to like guys on the lean side, more skinny, less muscly

Someone who doesn't constantly control me like a robot, who is also less paranoid about what I do in my spare time when I'm not with him and just generally someone who is genuinely nice.

Reply 88

alkaline.

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Original post by Ethereal World

Does this person exist? If he does, could you potentially forward him on to me :moon:

yes he does exist (minus veiny arms well he has 1 or 2 arm veins) lol but I ain't tellinggggggg

Reply 89

dairychocolate

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Original post by Ethereal World

I'm basically your description apart from I support Man United :rofl:

There's the rub :mmm:

Riiight. Every girl online is basically a rap music video model while every guy is 6'6" and packing an anaconda in his trousers.

Your ideal characteristics for a guy?

Reply 90

Ethereal World

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Original post by dairychocolate

Riiight. Every girl online is basically a rap music video model while every guy is 6'6" and packing an anaconda in his trousers.

Your ideal characteristics for a guy?

I think I put them on the first page, want me to link or can you get there?

hahaha to be fair I don't have a MASSIVE rack but in proportion I suppose so.

I was more joking with the Man U comment as if to be like, I'm your perfect girl apart from ... X

Reply 91

dairychocolate

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Original post by Ethereal World

I think I put them on the first page, want me to link or can you get there?

hahaha to be fair I don't have a MASSIVE rack but in proportion I suppose so.

I was more joking with the Man U comment as if to be like, I'm your perfect girl apart from ... X

I get the Man U bit lmao, I'm not an idiot.

When I say 'massive' I mean like EEs (not an expert on breast sizes tbh). Not monstrously large or anything, just way above average for a lean girl.

You can link it or copy and paste. I'm on my tablet and it's a pain navigating, especially with that infuriating popup.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 92

RosyPearl

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My best friend, nothing more.

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welcometoib

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5'6 or below, pretty although i dont really have a preference, ambitious in whatever she likes, is not a pushover (argues back if im being silly etc), keeps me happy, has a loving heart and caring attributes, and not too anxious to override my calmness under pressure or stress.

Reply 94

Ethereal World

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Original post by dairychocolate

I get the Man U bit lmao, I'm not an idiot.

When I say 'massive' I mean like EEs (not an expert on breast sizes tbh). Not monstrously large or anything, just way above average for a lean girl.

You can link it or copy and paste. I'm on my tablet and it's a pain navigating, especially with that infuriating popup.

No I mean I was just sort of being like I have all of these apart from Man U idk.

My list:

Original post by Ethereal World

Personality-
Intelligence- not just academic intelligence in terms of results, but an ability to talk about a wide range of topics and also be able to teach me stuff and engage me.
Wit- subtle dry & satirical, not just obvious humour
Empathetic- has the ability to understand how you feel and never dismisses you or your feelings
Introverted-so they understand my introversion, and don't feel the need to always do things/talk to me.

-doesn't support arsenal

Looks-
Lean- I don’t really like big muscles that much, just toned
Taller than me (not hard as I’m quite short :mmm:

I love light eyes – so green or blue eyes
A certain je ne sais quoi about how they look that is intriguing

Reply 95

Anonymous #3

Original post by welcometoib

5'6 or below, pretty although i dont really have a preference, ambitious in whatever she likes, is not a pushover (argues back if im being silly etc), keeps me happy, has a loving heart and caring attributes, and not too anxious to override my calmness under pressure or stress.