Weird Boyfriend

Me and 2 of my friends are going to a nightclub on Saturday that's having a sixth form/ college event. Everything was fine until she messaged me saying her boyfriend doesn't want her to go. Now she messaged me again and he's told her that if she goes, then he'll dump her. Is it normal for him to feel uncomfortable or is it weird?

Reply 1

NewcastleFresher

1

controlling, dump him

Reply 2

bassbabe

OP

14

Original post by NewcastleFresher

controlling, dump him

I've heard some shocking stories about him 😶

Reply 3

fatima1998

19

i would suggest her to break up... he is controlling her which is not a good sign of a relationship :noway:

who knows he might become aggressive in future :dontknow:

Reply 4

loveleest

21

He sounds like a psycho/insecure.

Reply 5

loveleest

21

Original post by bassbabe

I've heard some shocking stories about him 😶

like what?

Reply 6

randdom

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Original post by bassbabe

Me and 2 of my friends are going to a nightclub on Saturday that's having a sixth form/ college event. Everything was fine until she messaged me saying her boyfriend doesn't want her to go. Now she messaged me again and he's told her that if she goes, then he'll dump her. Is it normal for him to feel uncomfortable or is it weird?

Hello

Just to let you know I have moved your thread over to the relationships section as you will probably get more people who can advice you well seeing it there.

I can definitely understand why if he is feeling that he isn't secure in the relationship why he might feel worried about her going to a night club. However saying that she can't go or he will end the relationship is a bit controlling. If I were you I would try and see her and check how she is doing and then encourage her to talk to him about what his concerns are.

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bassbabe

OP

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Original post by loveleest

like what?

He threatened one of my friends and her bf and also grabbed a girl by her wrists, shook her and left her badly bruised. No one in our friendship group likes him, but we haven't told her that.

Reply 8

loveleest

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Original post by bassbabe

He threatened one of my friends and her bf and also grabbed a girl by her wrists, shook her and left her badly bruised. No one in our friendship group likes him, but we haven't told her that.

yuck, he sounds terrible.

Reply 9

brainhuman

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Do it anyway.

If he dumps, then good riddance, if he gets aggressive, then dump him.

Reply 10

999tigger

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Original post by bassbabe

Me and 2 of my friends are going to a nightclub on Saturday that's having a sixth form/ college event. Everything was fine until she messaged me saying her boyfriend doesn't want her to go. Now she messaged me again and he's told her that if she goes, then he'll dump her. Is it normal for him to feel uncomfortable or is it weird?

Its ok to tell your friend that he us a control freak and his behaviour is poor. Its her choice as to whether she wnats to take ant notice. People soemtimes need to make their own mistakes.

Reply 11

Cupid 27

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Original post by bassbabe

Me and 2 of my friends are going to a nightclub on Saturday that's having a sixth form/ college event. Everything was fine until she messaged me saying her boyfriend doesn't want her to go. Now she messaged me again and he's told her that if she goes, then he'll dump her. Is it normal for him to feel uncomfortable or is it weird?

I can understand the feeling very well. You can always take it easy for next time.

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