Am I transgender or not?

You know I get no real anxiety over this. But then again I did grow up with my mom. She's like me. Only I am a little different. Like on the mental level I seem like the same as some of the people I've met in translation group and plus my T diagnosed me way back. But then the thing is I don't have any desires or wants. Like when I was a kid. It was like ahhh damn guess I'm stuck this way. And in general I want to be a woman. And I see myself as a woman. As far as my sexuality goes I like people based on their biological sex so the same goes for me. But like I could never do a relationship with a guy. I have never wanted a relationship with a guy. And in a sense it's always the wrong thing guys say. When they talk like about dating. And I don't want that. I don't really feel it would ever work. Because of I a bit feel like many of their bros do only I happen to like guys. I don't want to be the girl in a relationship. I am aware I am a female. But that just emphasizes. It doesn't seem though with sex that it's a problem. I am fine with my vagina and all of that. They're just parts I got used to a long time ago. I even want to be a mom at some point. I wouldn't mind pregnancy as long it's not deadly or anything. And in place I get lots of people all jealous about my body I have learned to be grateful. I don't really have any desire to any clothing or anything either I don't like dresses but I'm not repulsed to me that really won't change anything. I just have always known I was mentally like that but I don't want to kill myself over it or anything. I feel more like logically there's nothing I can do but make the most of the life I have.

You have a vagina you are a woman. But you don't like guys, so you are a lesbian.

Lol the joke went way over your head.

So anyway.... you said you want to be a woman? Yet you already have a vagina, so I assume you are actually female. So.... how can you be transgender? I am confused.

You aren't trans. If you're born female and identify as female you're cis. Who you want to screw doesn't have any weighting on your gender.

I feel like tumblr culture has done this to you please stop it, its potentially harmful to actual trans people

Well the thing is I don't believe in gender. I have always felt I fell in the category of transgender when it comes that as I do have a personality and preferences that aren't typical to women stereotypically. I don't really care to me sex is the on;y thing that matters over gender which is why I'd rather see myself as female. I feel like I'm the same type of person as someone who is transgender ftm but I just don't really acknowledge gender as actually anything that defines me.

Not every woman or girl is a stereotypical woman or girl. I grew up playing with hot wheels and climbing trees with boys, I hate dresses and have never worn my hair up in my life. It doesn't mean I'm transgender. So you're a tomboy or not quite the stereotypical norm for a female, no need to place a label on it just for the sake of it.

For someone who doesn't see gender as something that defines them you sure seem desperate to have people label you as trans.

no I'm not. I've just been told I am transgender because if I had the choice I would be a man over a woman. But it's not an option as I was born female. So that's that. That's how I see it. I don't perceive gender as existing at all so living as a guy makes no sense to me as that's impossible as I can't be reborn literally.

Well then that's your problem right there.
If you don't see it as an option then there's no dilemma right?

no I'm not. I've just been told I am transgender because if I had the choice I would be a man over a woman. But it's not an option as I was born female. So that's that. That's how I see it. I don't perceive gender as existing at all so living as a guy makes no sense to me as that's impossible as I can't be reborn literally.

You saw something I never actually said. I don't want a bf I never have had one nor have I ever wanted one in the sense of boyfriend girlfriend relationships. A while back I always thought I would fit best as a gay man who isn't extremely masculine. But I don't see the point in moping around about something I can't change. And transitioning is a big fat joke to me. As it's all child's play to me. If at the end you still see you have a vagina then what's the point of it all? I'd rather be real to myself as that's who matters to me not to others.

no I'm not. I've just been told I am transgender because if I had the choice I would be a man over a woman. But it's not an option as I was born female. So that's that. That's how I see it. I don't perceive gender as existing at all so living as a guy makes no sense to me as that's impossible as I can't be reborn literally.

It's not about which gender you would prefer to be, but what you believe yourself to be, mentally.

Yeah I feel like that's made up. I don't believe in a mental gender. I believe in what's tangible and real.

Have you heard of agender?

You said that. Go read what you said.

Lol dat rant.

How inconsiderate of them to not let you choose which chromosomes you wanted.

Yeah I feel like that's made up. I don't believe in a mental gender. I believe in what's tangible and real.

No I didn't. I said I didn't want to be the wife. As I don't want a relationship where I'm the girl in the relationship.

I'd do well in a gay relationship I think. But that's impossible.


Either way it appears you're just trollin'