Family is stopping me from having sex before marriage

Why were you anonymous in the first place

Oh and yes in fact I do blame the religious elite for my country's failure.

It only started going downhill during the reign of Zia ul Haq. That man is the founding father of extremist groups both in Afghanistan and the ones who drive sectarian violence and hatred in modern day Pakistan.

Fortunately it's very slowly reversing- Raheel Sharif and the army in particular have given your friends a nice, long danda

Then you both might want to re-evaluate what you're 'preaching'.

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Well good for you but I'm still going to classify you as a nationalist though, although I'll tone down the level of delusion that I thought you were at.

I know I won't. Not accepting something you deem as irrational as irrational doesn't make my stance bad. It could just be that Islam isn't irrational and I am right and you are wrong.

Of the typical irreligious Pakistani, who after reading a few articles online, develops a superiority complex and thinks himself above practicing Muslims. A common symptom of these people is that they blame every problem known to mankind on 'mullahs'. The online Pakistani defence forum is full of people like you. Like I said, dime a dozen.

You don't really know much about me it seems. I recommend you stop thinking you know the mind behind the anonymous. In any case, now you were born in poverty, you're still dogmatic but your opinions are just at the other end of the spectrum. Oh bro you're inflicted with a far disease now. Muslims could have the flu but you're tainted with ebola.

I wanted to be. No real reason.

What about you?


Oh man I'm upgrading you back up a notch on the delusion level. You think Pakistan was some stunning Utopia before 1977 or whatever the year of Zias takeover?

Even if Zia never existed, Muslims would never accept groups like the ahmadiyya.

And once again, assuming more things incorrectly about me. I don't think you'd know who my friends were if they slapped you across the face with a chappal.

I wish my parents and family weren't so backwards, they cannot be reasoned with and they'll get me married off to a guy who has similar thinking to them I feel so bleak about my life My mum regardless of what you tell her believes the hymen breaks during sex, she says it did for all her sisters and her but j tried to tell her that was probably a tear to the vaginal wall because the guy was being forceful. I don't want to wait until marriage but they've instilled such a fear in me that I can't bring myself to have sex outside marriage now even if I wanted to. My mum denies that my bedsheets will be shown around to prove I am a virgin but that my future husband will see it and he won't trust me and think i wasn't a virgin if he doesn't see blood. For this reason she won't let me use a tampon, she had such a go at me when I asked if I could use one :/

Excuse me, why do I need to re-evaluate my choices and what I believe in? I have every right to make my own personal decisions about my sex life. Are you insinuating that my personal choice is wrong? Because that doesn't make any sense at all. Perhaps you'd like to expand on that very casual and brushing statement of yours. I hope the 2 people who've liked your thoughtless comment understand too that whatever personal choice I make that isn't socially injurious has no room for dissent.

You're excused.

You preach that all guys are dickheads. What a terrible sweeping generalisation. I hope you have no sons or they'll be condemned before they've even taken their first breath.

You're issue with tampons. Toxic Shock Syndrome is VERY rare these days and when it does occur it's usually to idiots who don't use them properly. Also, whilst I do not use tampons, they are not anymore unhygienic than sanitary pads (I'm going to assume that's what you use). Shoving a spongey ibject up your vagine to absorb blood vs essentially sitting in your own blood. There are my hygienic things than both.

As for your choices in your sex life. No I do not have an issue. I actually admire that in this day and age you still choose to do what you want to do (if you've been brainwashed into it my respect goes). Not what I would choose but I have no issues.

I hope your head doesn't hurt too much.

Oh I see. Yes I preach what the OP practices too, but not the reasons behind it. Well then you're lucky enough to not meet dickheads because it's hard these days to meet guys who genuinely bang you not because he's horny and you're the most convenient hole nearby for him to insert his dick into. I apologise if it's the "all guys are dickheads" statement you're uncomfortable with, that I do not agree with. However, I do certainly think there's a considerable number that outweighs those who aren't.

Yes, you've made a valid point about that and once again, I apologise I've neglected specifying the reason why I don't use tampons, and it's not toxic shock syndrome. The issue I have with tampons is it's relative inability to hold heavy flows.

Don't worry, I read your comment in a second (or should I specify again in case you dissect it to its core: about half a minute) relatively simple information, valid points I agree with, I just simply forgot to specify that I agree with what OP practices, not necessarily the reasons behind so. Cheers.

Excuse me, why do I need to re-evaluate my choices and what I believe in? I have every right to make my own personal decisions about my sex life. Are you insinuating that my personal choice is wrong? Because that doesn't make any sense at all. Perhaps you'd like to expand on that very casual and brushing statement of yours. I hope the 2 people who've liked your thoughtless comment understand too that whatever personal choice I make that isn't socially injurious has no room for dissent.

Who marries smelly, horny Mullahs? Well I imagine women without any choice, women who have been brainwashed and have no social skills when it comes to the opposite sex, women who are literally unable to find their own spouse and let others decide for them.

Well why wouldn't you marry a guy with two other wives? A man is allowed to have 4 wives in Islam. The actual question should be- why wouldn't you marry an already married man? Are you allowed to discriminate in such a way against married men in your deen?

Who marries smelly, horny Mullahs? Well I imagine women without any choice, women who have been brainwashed and have no social skills when it comes to the opposite sex, women who are literally unable to find their own spouse and let others decide for them.

Well why wouldn't you marry a guy with two other wives? A man is allowed to have 4 wives in Islam. The actual question should be- why wouldn't you marry an already married man? Are you allowed to discriminate in such a way against married men in your deen?