Last too long during sex

Recently began having unprotected sex with a girl. Not in a relationship but a friends with benefits situation. The sex is enjoyable however I will either spend about half an hour then good bored and stop, or takes me about 45 minutes - 1 hour and a half. Used to masterbate about 3 times a day. But since I've become sexually active I masterbate once every few days. I can ejaculate from masterbation very easily. Can anyone give me advice or positions which will speed up my ejaculation during sex.

Reply 1

Dewsy

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Original post by Anon 123

Used to masterbate about 3 times a day.

There's your problem. Try not masturbating full stop?*

Reply 2

Anon 123

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Original post by Dewsy

There's your problem. Try not masturbating full stop?*

Yeah i tried. In fact i whent six days without masterbating one time before i shagged her and it took me two rounds. And on the 2nd time it took me 55 minutes

Reply 3

It's****ingWOODY

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With us guys, positions and stuff aren't the answer - it's a mental thing. You need more arousal.

Reply 4

Bang Outta Order

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You probably numbed your damn dick bruv with all that *******...

if you **** un-lubed you're making it worse as well...

what you need to do is get into it more so you can finish your 2nd wind without drying you and him/her up, Idk how anyone can be bored during sex.

the censored word is the word for masturbation that rhymes with erm...banking...

Reply 5

Anon 123

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Original post by 0to100

You probably numbed your damn dick bruv with all that *******...

if you **** un-lubed you're making it worse as well...

what you need to do is get into it more so you can finish your 2nd wind without drying you and him/her up, Idk how anyone can be bored during sex.

the censored word is the word for masturbation that rhymes with erm...banking...

Seen. Yeah im tryna cut down and obviously its alright for the first sort of 30-40 minutes. Then it just becomes a chore and it sort ruins the experience. And its girls not lads. Nothing against it, just not my cuppa

Reply 6

Anon 123

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Original post by WoodyMKC

With us guys, positions and stuff aren't the answer - it's a mental thing. You need more arousal.

Cheers mate. I think that makes the most sense, because i have to get into a certain mind set and **** to finish, but yeah ill talk to my girl about that.

Reply 7

Bang Outta Order

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Original post by Anon 123

Seen. Yeah im tryna cut down and obviously its alright for the first sort of 30-40 minutes. Then it just becomes a chore and it sort ruins the experience. And its girls not lads. Nothing against it, just not my cuppa

What about the person you're with? Are they bored or begging for more so you keep going? If they're bored and just laid there like a corpse so you don't communicate what really gets you off...you need to start asking what they want, or just offering to do more than just the same motion n position. Throw her into a new one pin her down ask her if she likes it. At the very least it wakes her up.

Reply 8

It's****ingWOODY

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Original post by Anon 123

Cheers mate. I think that makes the most sense, because i have to get into a certain mind set and **** to finish, but yeah ill talk to my girl about that.

Just think about what fantasies you've got and stuff and chat to her about them.

Reply 9

TruthBeTold'

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You can thank porn for that

Reply 10

WidgetJones

Original post by Anon 123

Recently began having unprotected sex with a girl. Not in a relationship but a friends with benefits situation. The sex is enjoyable however I will either spend about half an hour then good bored and stop, or takes me about 45 minutes - 1 hour and a half. Used to masterbate about 3 times a day. But since I've become sexually active I masterbate once every few days. I can ejaculate from masterbation very easily. Can anyone give me advice or positions which will speed up my ejaculation during sex.

At least you're no one minute man. :rofl:

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Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Try some kinks out and see if one does it for you. If you've just been masturbating over and over, you might need to introduce something else in to sex to make it especially different from what you used to do 3 times a day.

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

Wow... you've got some friend w/ benefits! She lays there while you take 30-40 mins then get bored!! :s-smilie:

She must be incredibly sore not to mention insulted. Geeze, I think if it happened once I'd think bad luck.... if it happened a second time....it wouldn't be happening again. You'd have to find a new friend for benefits!

Don't rely on your hand for 4-5 days before hand (you'll have to plan it out I guess) and see if restraint on your part helps when you're with her.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

Um....also, unprotected? Seriously..... look at the post that just came up on TSR, "I'm pregnany, what should I do"? Seriously, unprotected or is she on the pill and you're not wearing a condom? BIG difference!

Reply 14

Anonymous #3

stop edging when you masturbate

Reply 15

Anon 123

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Original post by Anonymous

Wow... you've got some friend w/ benefits! She lays there while you take 30-40 mins then get bored!! :s-smilie:

She must be incredibly sore not to mention insulted. Geeze, I think if it happened once I'd think bad luck.... if it happened a second time....it wouldn't be happening again. You'd have to find a new friend for benefits!

Don't rely on your hand for 4-5 days before hand (you'll have to plan it out I guess) and see if restraint on your part helps when you're with her.

Well she seeme to enjoy it. I mean we meet up often and she says she enjoys it. Of course she could be lying, but she orgasms easy, so will usually *** a few timew before me. But youve made me think twice. And im kind of worried because i can see what you mean, so i think i should talk to her about wether she actually enjoys it.

Reply 16

username1726117

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Stop fapping. Stop porn.

Simple.

Being serious, by the way. Perhaps not as simple, but it's a good start. Try abstaining from the above, see what happens. Otherwise it'll be a mental issue.

Reply 17

queen-bee

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Original post by WoodyMKC

With us guys, positions and stuff aren't the answer - it's a mental thing. You need more arousal.

Oh really

Reply 18

KingLhasaApso

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Original post by Anon 123

Recently began having unprotected sex with a girl. Not in a relationship but a friends with benefits situation. The sex is enjoyable however I will either spend about half an hour then good bored and stop, or takes me about 45 minutes - 1 hour and a half. Used to masterbate about 3 times a day. But since I've become sexually active I masterbate once every few days. I can ejaculate from masterbation very easily. Can anyone give me advice or positions which will speed up my ejaculation during sex.

I wouldnt complain about lasting a while its good for us chicks. Unless one or both of you arent trying! You deffo need to cut back on the tactical wanks though, did you **** to porn? It could be that your stuck in the porn rut where you cant get a turned on having real life sex as much as you did ******* to porn. Ive met plenty of men who overdo the porn, it desensitises them and struggle during actual sex. If you didnt use porn, maybe you just dont fancy the chick that much.

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