Sorry to but in on this thread, but I have a 14-year-old daughter who wanted to help out at a residential nursing home and we went there to meet all the residents/staff etc, but was then told (because of her young age) that she couldn't be left alone with the residents so she wasn't able to 'help out' - she was basically going to chat to the residents, play games with them etc. Is this right? The nursing home said that they couldn't do the requisite legal checks on her because of her age and therefore she couldn't help out?! It seems crazy to me because there's of course not many children willing to give up their time like this - is there any way around this problem does anyone know please?