Boyfriend is "very well endowed"
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Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now, and he has a very large penis, larger than anything I have ever experienced before.
He is a good seven inches when flaccid, and probably about 5/6 inches girth, when aroused. The length doesn't really change.
I however, would be classed as a "deer" by the Karma Sutra as I have a small vagina.
Sex is always very painful for the first minute or so, thereafter it's fine.
However, I always find that I'm very very sore after. I'm not sure if there is a word for the part I'm trying to describe here, but the lower semicircle of my vaginal entrance is always burning and sore after the sex has ended, and it often takes around two days to go away.
How can I stop this soreness from happening? I am always fully aroused before any actual sex begins, I'm just wondering if it will be something that I'll have to endure after every session just because of his girth.
I will be grateful for any help :]
xx
Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now, and he has a very large penis, larger than anything I have ever experienced before.
He is a good seven inches when flaccid, and probably about 5/6 inches girth, when aroused. The length doesn't really change.
I however, would be classed as a "deer" by the Karma Sutra as I have a small vagina.
Sex is always very painful for the first minute or so, thereafter it's fine.
However, I always find that I'm very very sore after. I'm not sure if there is a word for the part I'm trying to describe here, but the lower semicircle of my vaginal entrance is always burning and sore after the sex has ended, and it often takes around two days to go away.
How can I stop this soreness from happening? I am always fully aroused before any actual sex begins, I'm just wondering if it will be something that I'll have to endure after every session just because of his girth.
I will be grateful for any help :]
xx
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very painful. Either become wetter or use lube.I am a similar size to your BF and although it is quite a bit bigger than average it isn't huge so you should be able to manage.
Does he know that he his hurting you? If not speak to him and get him to go a little slower to begin with. I don't think that arousal is the only factor in how accommodating your vagina is going to be it will still take it a little while to get 'warmed up'.
Does he know that he his hurting you? If not speak to him and get him to go a little slower to begin with. I don't think that arousal is the only factor in how accommodating your vagina is going to be it will still take it a little while to get 'warmed up'.
i had this problem with my boyfriend
we just tried different positions and found one that worked better
we just tried different positions and found one that worked better
Lube, definitely!!! I find that I'm sore for a good few hours after, but generally it's fine after sleeping overnight
Like others said, lube is your frienddd.
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I however, would be classed as a "deer" by the Karma Sutra as I have a small vagina.
I however, would be classed as a "deer" by the Karma Sutra as I have a small vagina.
Oh, don't be ridiculous...there's no such thing
The solution depends on whether the length or the girth is causing the pain.
I have exactly the same problem- using more lube can help, but doesn't always make a difference. I found the best thing was practice makes perfect! After a while you'll get used to the bigger girth and your body will accomodate it without any problem
Not just lub, but if it is still sore afterwards don't put the whole of his penis inside you, just the first 4" or so. See if that works for you.
I agree with what someone said about condoms, I find that they cause more friction and take away your natural lubrication so it doesn't slide as easily lol. If it is a long term relationship then maybe consider going on the pill, get STI tests done and then stop using condoms. And feel lucky that your bf has a nice big dick, not a small one! Hehe
I dunno about creams on vaginas - mightn't that mess with your natural system down there? :/
I agree with lube. And some positions (like doggy style) make it feel bigger, so avoid them.
I agree with lube. And some positions (like doggy style) make it feel bigger, so avoid them.
Original post by Butterflyleg
Oh, don't be ridiculous...there's no such thing
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