Muslims, sleepovers and going out

He was really confused person either a troll or ill. We confronted him about his sig but he just kept repeating himself, it was quite weird.

Good luck with the revision.

Yeah I guess it was. Fact of the matter is I think out of all faiths it is the one most hated by others, the furtherst behind, the most contraversial, hypocritical, I dare say foolish, of all faiths. In my opinion, and those of many.

OP's problem goes some way to proving it.

I wouldn't be living "alone" as such, I would be living with others who share I share a flat with or whatever, or in halls (probably for first year). Plus I don't think I can really cope living with my parents much longer. I'm a reasonable person. My parents are totally unreasonable.

Aww you poor thing - listen sweets when I was younger my father was exactly like that! I did not have my freedom at all but now I do what I want to do - I don't really listen to them. They can't do anything - they will get use to it - I promise you. Enjoy yourself - go out and get yourself a job that way you become independant, ask a friend to drop you or pick you up.

My family are muslim but I am not but take your time and enjoy yourself whilst you are young don't let these traditions/cultural issues stop you from doing what you want to do.

Edit - I can give you a typical example, I work in the city and come home frequently late my dad assumes im sleeping around and I can't change his mentality. I have told him I am at work but he just does'nt believe me now I have warned him if he continues to pester me I will get his number banned from my phone so he is so far a bit less crazy but still crazy. Oh well they do it because they care but they don't care the right way. Which is very frustrating.

If you need to talk feel free to keep posting hun x

Well..Im a Muslim, my parents let me - But of course mine proves nothing :P

Meh..Its just in the spotlight. All religions are like this, they're all hypocritical and its all a cult, but they're hated one by one.

I honestly think its more of a cultural thing....Im muslim and had a huge freedom until I was 19....and when I turned 19-21 I totally abused my freedom only coz I didnt know what was allowed and what wasnt....and now I cant do any more sleepovers and im 21 but it was ok wen i was 16 wtf.....so really wish my parents were more strict wen I was younger....

umm... more freedom.
she can go out and do whatever she wants, her parents arent there to stop her.

I'm not allowed to get a job as it will "get in the way of my studies".

What have they done that's so unreasonable and is it because of them you now almost consider yourself an atheist?

I think we fundamentally think differently. Going out and doing whatever you want is not good. People like you automatically assume that religion is bad because your parents always restricted you. Go find out if it's permissible in Islam and if not then why. If you disagree then you'll probably not a Muslim anymore

You are 21? You are your own boss. IGNORE them, if you want to follow Islam great, if you dont great. Just dont do what your parents have you do when are 21 years old, thats just horrific.