Do you like being approached by guys in the daytime?

I just want to know if any other girls feel the same - whenever you're out in town shopping, in a shopping centre etc, do you ever secretly wish you'd get approached by a guy? I dunno about you but I know I used to. And I used to eye up hot (older) guys all the time and kinda wish they'd approach me.

I'm talking about decent, friendly, charming guys and not idiots/chavs/creepy guys!

I've got a bf now so I'm not bothered, but yeah I dunno what it is with UK guys but they stare but NEVER approach. Where are all the guys with some guts and confidence?

So why didn't you approach them.

I've been saying this **** for ages. The daytime is the best place to meet women, full stop. I'm British myself, and I'm the exception to the rule....I APPROACH girls when I'm out and about, I don't STARE.

In a way I'm actually glad that British men don't approach girls in the daytime, because it means there is no competition for me. And when you DO approach a girl in the daytime, in a friendly, confident, charming and honest manner, it IMMEDIATELY makes you stand out from the rest. I'm of the opinion that British women are starved of real men....it seems to me that British men can only approach women when drunk, or in bars/clubs, or over the internet, or meet through social circles....almost NOONE dares approach in the daytime when sober.



My advice to you is this....1) read a book called 'Mode One: Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking' by Alan Roger Currie (Google it). This book will explain that the best way to meet women is to be direct and honest with them....no 'beating around the bush', just be straight up and honest with them that you think they're attractive and that you want to get to know them. Cut out all the bull**** small-talk etc and get right to the point, and 2) don't bother asking girls for their numbers. Instead, get a ton of business cards printed out, then after you've talked to a girl for a few minutes, ask her if she fancies getting together with you sometime in the next few weeks so you can get to know each other, then hand her your card and tell her to call you when she's free. Then simply walk away.

This works wonders because it AUTOMATICALLY weeds out the girls who are interested in you from those who aren't, since only the girls who are interested will call. And it also makes girls chase you instead of you having to chase them, thus giving you the power position. When a girl has to 'work' for your attention, it makes her want you more. So yeah, never take a ****ing number from a girl again. Give her yours, and make her chase you instead. Ever since I started doing this, I've wasted less time on girls who aren't interested and had girls chase after me...which is better all round. Good luck!

1) Scared of rejection,

2) It's the man's job to approach.

So where do you live? If you live in the same place as me id love to watch you work your magic sir.

I live in Manchester, though there's a good chance I will be going travelling in the next few months. Where are you from?

I recently got approached in the daytime and it totally weirded me out. At least somewhere social at night, it's kinda normal to just strike up a conversation, it doesn't feel so forced and you're not put on your guard straightaway - but when somebody just randomly comes up to you while you're out shopping and tries it on, it's like, wtf?!

I recently got approached in the daytime and it totally weirded me out. At least somewhere social at night, it's kinda normal to just strike up a conversation, it doesn't feel so forced and you're not put on your guard straightaway - but when somebody just randomly comes up to you while you're out shopping and tries it on, it's like, wtf?!

But at least when a guy starts talking to you at a bar, he could just be striking up a conversation because it's a social atmosphere, so it's not necessarily like he wants to get into your pants - he might merely be chatting to you just for a chat. And if he does start flirting with you and trying it on, at least you've got the fairly friendly basis of the initial chat for it to start from. Whereas if a guy comes right up to you in the daytime, it's clearly, 'I saw you from over there, I think you're hot, I want to get with you' - it feels a little too upfront and as if looks are the only thing that matters.

I recently got approached in the daytime and it totally weirded me out. At least somewhere social at night, it's kinda normal to just strike up a conversation, it doesn't feel so forced and you're not put on your guard straightaway - but when somebody just randomly comes up to you while you're out shopping and tries it on, it's like, wtf?!

But at least when a guy starts talking to you at a bar, he could just be striking up a conversation because it's a social atmosphere, so it's not necessarily like he wants to get into your pants - he might merely be chatting to you just for a chat. And if he does start flirting with you and trying it on, at least you've got the fairly friendly basis of the initial chat for it to start from. Whereas if a guy comes right up to you in the daytime, it's clearly, 'I saw you from over there, I think you're hot, I want to get with you' - it feels a little too upfront and as if looks are the only thing that matters.

I'm talking about decent, friendly, charming guys and not idiots/chavs/creepy guys!