Guys Pleasure During Sex?

Just in terms of of pain actually

Without getting into sex tips which seems to be taboo here, and assuming you and your partner are open to experimentation; Prostate massages are very pleasurable. Finding your kinks and fetishes will also help massively. Start ignoring that post-orgasm "I no longer find you attractive" feeling and training your body to last longer.

Just be proactive in learning about sex and trying things out. Theres a mass of resources out there (that aren't porn), and everyone is different.

Ah, I see, thanks.
Would you say a guy gets more pleasure out of sex whilst thrusting? (Compared to a girl) and not taking into account the focus on the clitoris.

If the girl is hot and has major skills it can be as good. But that's rare, sadly. A lot of hot girls don't try because they don't have to.

Edit. You can judge it by the degree of self control a person retains. The more intense it is, the less self control they retain.

Good physically or good psychologically?

Also what would you define as being skills

Ah, to be honest I based it on porn >_>
But there's home made porn which is not faked and the girl still moans a lot..

Because those of us with experience could give a more down-to-earth POV than some stupid random website without such idiotic rules?

If this wasn't a student website it would be dead.

Both. I meant good physically, though.

A. Good psychologically is an important skill. If you insult his manhood or are unstable mentally during sex that's bad. If you compliment the girth of his member and how amazing he is, that will improve his experience.

B. Other skills include knowing where all the male sexual parts are (and not just the obvious ones) being willing to do whatever fetishes he has, moving during intercourse, and being willing to do everything.

Plus there are more mechanical skills but you're not supposed to give sex tips on tsr.

A. something along the lines of: "Oh please **** me with this beautiful, wonderful, big **** of yours... -that way ?
..so you guys like the porn terminology?

B. No sex tips asked, but anatomy: which male sexual parts are there except balls and penis ? (based on what I learned in school I don't know more than these)

EDIT: as to the OP: I don't think that in general men or women have more fun sexually, it is very different for each individual.
But one suggestion is to train to hold longer, longer intercourse=more fun.

We like sexy terminology. Porn actors use it because they know it turns men on, but it predates them.


Perineum, glans, and the balls do more than just hang there.


From my experience, women have a greater range of pleasure. They tend to reach higher heights more easily than men. Men have a much more consistant level of pleasure though.

I am not a native speaker so even with dictionary and 10 years experience so do I not know what You mean by "..but it predates them" I would be grateful if you could clarify so that my english gets better.

To "predate" something means to come before it, so your grandparents predate your parents and the CD predates the iPod

So guys are mainly too shy I guess, my current bf is the only one who ever suggested/asked for dirty talk.
I do know about, and did mention balls, and glans is a part of the penis, and I received thorough instructions re both -so I only do/did miss the perineum..

The consistant level makes sense, women (or me anyway) are much more vulnerable to distractions of thoughts, surroundings, etc.

I am not a native speaker so even with dictionary and 10 years experience so do I not know what You mean by "..but it predates them" I would be grateful if you could clarify so that my english gets better.

Thank you.
My dictionary did tell me that much, but I can't get sense in it in the whole context of the sentence: "Porn actors use it (dirty talk) because they know it turns men on, but it predates them."

Yeah, some girls get offended by requests from guys to be better at sex, so a lot don't say anything.

You have to pay special attention. A lot of women know the balls and the glans exist but don't do anything with them. Their handjobs only touch the shaft, for example.


Yeah, a woman has to be in the zone to get there. But if she is in the zone...


Porn actors speak dirty because men like women speaking dirty, men don't like women speaking dirty because of porn actors.

I have no idea either don't worry

I do not get offended if it is said the right way, in the right moment, but I see the problem, nobody wants to hear that he/she is bad at sex, but a request for improvement implies that in a way.
However if it is said in the context of general sex talk during foreplay or during cuddling after, like "what would you like, what do I like, can we experiment a little" then it does not feel to be criticism.