Is it just me that ALWAYS feels alone?

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I feel the same as you. Isolated for the last year of my college as **** went down with one of the popular girls, now I'm on a gap year and I have my parents to talk to. My younger sister won't even communicate with me because I'm super uncool.

The only thing we need to do is stay true to ourselves, I know for a fact that I am a great person and always try to do the best thing for everyone. If people can't love you for who you are then don't bother with them.

I'm tryng to find hobbies and become content being alone because it's only when I fully love myself that others will come along who love me for who i am and not for what I can offer them.

PM me if you want a new friend!!!!!!!!! :-D

Reply 41

Stanza

I feel lonely most of the time now that I am moved away from hometo uni. Don't worry you are not alone. I have just started to understand the meaning of family and unconditional love. At uni I havnt really made any friends, tend to just float around groups. Don't feel bad about not being invited, maybe it's because you gave the impression that you are not into those sort of things. Ask them if you can come along to the next social event. If you don't feel happy around them andd feel used, move on to people who will appreciate you and want to be around you for your personality.
I don't think it's easy to find friends you can actually call friends. Most people will use you, maybe you use them as well. It's a human nature, to be selfish, we only socialise for our own needs anyway, otherwise everyone would be making friends with the next loser to make them feel better.

PM me if you like, I would be happy to talk to you.

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Reply 42

hatemylife

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Today it has really hit me I have no friends. Not even a single one. All the people in my life use me, literally. Nothing has changed since primary school. Everyone always came to me when they had a problem, upset and all that bs. But I was never ever invited to their parties, sleepovers, called to come out on a night out, literally NOTHING. Has anything changed over the years? No way. I am now 18, have no group of friends, don't get invited anywhere, when I do they change the destination and don't tell me.

I literally have no one. My family well, I would be typing all day if I was to even explain.

Now at university and I still haven't made friends. I thought I did but they never invite me anywhere but are always the first to tell me what they done.

God will I die alone. I feel so lonely. To be fair all I have is my counselling service.

Now my rant is over, does anyone feel the way I do? Constantly sad, alone and depressed?

I mean the moment I get some self-esteem something or someone reminds me that I don't fit in or makes me feel like a bigger loner.