Thoughts on ignoring a girl's texts

a bit insensitive of you. i feel sorry for her because she obviously cares about you, and you show little regard for her feelings. through-out that time she was probably going to pieces worrying that she had done something wrong, trying to figure out what it was and upset that she might have messed things up. its not right to toy with people, particuarly with matters of the heart. remember; when you play games, you can sometimes lose.

Ive been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now but she texts me good morning everyday and attempts to make small talk random like asking how are you etc. I'm pretty sure thats a quick trip to the friendzone and replying makes you look needy sometimes so I'm gonna ignore her texts for the next few days.

Do you think its true that if you make yourself less accessible it increases attraction?

Not like I want to play these type of games but if I have to then whatever.

Don't blank her, you won't look needy by replying to her.

If she's making an effort to text you that much then she probably likes you and if you're ignoring her then you'll just seem uninterested and she might just give up.

Very much this^

If she's taking that much interest in you, believe me, it's not just so she can drag you into the friendzone. No girl would ever bother to do that kind of thing. That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard.
When I read the thread title I thought she just annoyed you and you weren't interested in her and looking for advice on how to let her down gently. You should have seen my jaw when I realized you were actually worried she might friendzone you.

She has agreed to meet up but theres no set date, so eventually she's gonna lose interest so I have to do these things to keep her interest up. I don't wanna make it look like to her I am that much interested in her even though in reality I actually am.

She has agreed to meet up but theres no set date, so eventually she's gonna lose interest so I have to do these things to keep her interest up. I don't wanna make it look like to her I am that much interested in her even though in reality I actually am.

Ive been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now but she texts me good morning everyday and attempts to make small talk random like asking how are you etc. I'm pretty sure thats a quick trip to the friendzone and replying makes you look needy sometimes so I'm gonna ignore her texts for the next few days.

Do you think its true that if you make yourself less accessible it increases attraction?

No matter what girls say on this forum. No matter how much they try and deny it. The truth is that as soon as you stop "trying" you suddenly reel them in. I noticed this with my first girlfriend and its continued for every girl since. Providing they like you.... or are on the edge and not sure which way they want to g with you, its the exact same pattern that occurs:

1. text them normally and then suddenly blank them

2.A period will go on where she initially blanks you too and communication breaks down for a period. Can be hours to days depending on the girl. You need to "hold" at this stage and do not crack otherwise the balance of power flips in her favour.

3. She WILL crack and message you. Again ignore

4. She will have one last try at you ( they always message twice at the least without a reply if they like you)

5. This is when you MUST reply. Its 2 risky to leave it another one. Voila..... all of a sudden shes sees you as a challenge rather than thinking that shes the prize for you.

Women are so weird sometimes

Its ok, decided Im not going to pursue this incase she rejects me which is most likely to happen considering we've already been talking via text way too long without meeting up.

Its ok, decided Im not going to pursue this incase she rejects me which is most likely to happen considering we've already been talking via text way too long without meeting up.

Hey sorry for mentioning my own problem here on this thread but I desperately need HELP

I Need help on present ideas to give to my french female teacher she has been a Phenomenal teacher, the best teacher
I had throughout my secondary education. I'm currently on my study leave 4 my gcse exams and tomorrow is my
Last study leave lesson so I was thinking of getting her a present. She helped me out so much as I started year11 from scratch
And within 7Months of hard-work, commitment, dedication since november until now she helped me achieve a realistic 'A' or even an 'A*'. After studying arabic from year7-11 (4years) I was predicted a C whereas 7months with her she helped me achieve an A/A*. I would sum her up as : Fun, sophisticated, attractive(even thou I do fancy her ), easy going & most importantly a close friend. I was thinking of getting her Chocolates, Perfume, Card. But I was thinking of getting her flowers + a teddy bear with 'Thank you' do you think that is too much or should I stick with the initial idea of Chocolates, Card and perfume?

Let me know ASAP as tomorrow is the last study lesson n I gtta make a move otherwise it will be too late .

Btw she is 31years old.