Am I allowed to move into halls without parents permission?

Lool my mum will kill me if i did that

Dont. Call. My, Mum. An. Idiot.

Don't worry too much - 2 of my Christain-Indian friends (surprise, i know! but they are very religious) are having an extremely hard time trying to convince their parents to let them go to university halls - the parents were already mad at them for failing to get into the local university that needed like A*AA lol.

1. My parents dont live in the stone age
2. My ethnicity is pakistani.. My nationality is British. Whether I was born here doesnt matter. I still have to follow my culture too.
3. Nobody said pakistani parents are terrorist
4. Whether u want to agree or not its up to you. But the proportion of pakistani parents not wanting to send the daughter to unis further away is higher.
5. Who's struggling with their identity?

So killing your daughter is more respectable than letting your daughter go on a night out?

So killing your daughter is more respectable than letting your daughter go on a night out?

Imperial College, was it?

Actually it does. If you are in Britain, you must respect and follow British law/culture/customs/values.



If you don't like it - go to Pakistan or wherever.

You claim to be academic yet, you do not understand what figure of speech is.

As my mum said if I go to the uni on my own accord, then she will get my uncles, dad and everyone to go there and get me out.

I dunno if I'm financially capable of doing it myself

You said she was against "free-mixing". She is an idiot and shouldn't be in the UK if she feels this way. The UK is made up of people of many cultures, who are free to mix as they please.

You haven't got finances sorted out...you haven't got a course sorted out (you want to phone up unis)...your mum has consistently said "no" to you moving out. How the heck are you going to get your stuff moved to uni from your house to uni?!

...Wise move (no pun intended)...I think not!

Thank you

OP, just curious what happens when you do make friends at uni? Will you be allowed to socialise outside of lecture halls/library? how about if you eventually meet a guy (muslim or not) that you like? will they choose who you settle down with too.. ? will you be joining any sports/interests societies - so will you be able to go to the events? What about when (if) your professor takes you all out for a meal ( I know some unis do this during freshers) will you not be allowed?

This has made me quite sad . When will you get your independence/freedom? (thats if you do listen to your parents..)

I hate how childish parents can be. I do understand that it's a big step having your child move out, but the whole 'you don't love me' emotional blackmail stuff is really immature. Either the child resents the parents for severely limiting their life and not trusting them, or the parent resents the child for living independently and making their own choices. It's horrible.

No problem

But you've repped me and as a subscriber, I can see who reps me your identity is safe with me

Hypothetically speaking

Ermm I disagree, according to everyone. Britain is multicultural so what exactly is british culture? Maybe getting a pizza, chinese and indian takeaway? I do follow the bloody laws and values. There's nothing wrong with believing/ behaving different

If you dont like it - get off my thread

So what following a religion is idiotic? At her work she does talk to men yes. Shes no hardcore islamist. She just wouldnt want me to be friends with boys.

Finance nearly sorted, I just need to acheieve my grades to get into my course too.

Loool I shall not rep anyone now

Great. So your mother advocates murder, but doesn't allow her daughter to move out for university? Ridiculous.



British culture is definitely not forcing your daughter to live at home because you have warped perceptions of the Western world.



I'm trying to help you here. Besides, don't come complaining when you can't take the truth.

I never mentioned religion once. Her views are wrong. They are backwards and she gives immigration and immigrants a bad name.