Are Indian males less desirable than other ethnicities to British Caucasian girls?

A lot of the time it's to do with confidence; I find a lot of the Asain men I know are cowardly in terms of parental pressure which is childlike and uncomfortable but act confidently and act like you can make up your own mind without asking mummy and you'll be fine... Besides it's more about the person than the race

A lot of the time it's to do with confidence; I find a lot of the Asain men I know are cowardly in terms of parental pressure which is childlike and uncomfortable but act confidently and act like you can make up your own mind without asking mummy and you'll be fine... Besides it's more about the person than the race

Please do not state something you have NO idea about. Generally speaking we suffer from this right from the time we are born. It is in our culture. Nothing can change it. Nothing.

Hell many Indians are FORCED to become a doc/engineer from parental pressure. Why else do you find huge %'s of asians there? Indian parents think that docs and engineers are the best jobs.

My grandmother is currently trying to convince my cousin to become a doc since the time he was 11 or so. He is clever so my grandmother wants him to become a doc!

She even used the words of this nature '' If you become a doc then my soul will rest in peace''

Having said this Indian girls have it worse. Atleast in India

I was wondering whether or not it matters. I'm Indian and a few of the Caucasian females I've met have said that they don't usually date Indian guys, so it's made me wonder if most Caucasian females share that opinion.

It is in our culture. Nothing can change it. Nothing.

Oh that's right cultures never ever change! Oh wait they do.
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I'm a 20yr old indian (turning 21 soon), and I have never done anything with a women. I was always very shy and quiet growing up, especially around girls, so nothing really much happened in secondary school, I did try asking some girls out but they failed miserably. I went through a period of unrequited love for awhile with one of the girls I asked out and even now it still troubles me, albiet rarely.

Over the years though I have worked on improving myself and my confidence, and the changes from how I was before compared to now are amazing. I'm not too worried about looks, I always try to keep in shape and i'm confident in my appearance, however I can't imagine being with a girl.

For some reason everytime I think about it, it feels so alien to the point where I can't picture myself in those situations. A little part of my feels like i've given up and I don't know what to do about it, I know this mindset is wrong but how do I change it.

When I look at my friends and family and see their relationships, i'm happy, but at the same time envious. I would love to be in a relationship or just have casual flings but just can't picture it.

I'm not sure what to expect from this tbh, just felt like expressing some insecurities.

I think it's more culture than looks. A lot of Asians come across as more shy/introverted than white and black people, our culture promotes more extroverted attitudes. It's probably just a case of putting yourself out there and boosting your confidence, like it is for all of us, there's just an extra challenge. To be fair, it goes both ways, I'm quite a loud person and I think I've maybe scared off Asian girls who I've hit on in the past.