Hi. I really need to talk about this. There is literally nobody I can discuss this with because (i) it sounds crazy and (ii) people would think it's extremely mean of me to think such things. I'm driving myself crazy thinking I am just uber-paranoid or a conspriacy theorist. Anyway...
I have a close friend I went to university with but they no longer live here (doing post grad somewhere else). We're not super best friends, but we hung out at university. But there is something I can't quite put my finger on that is just a bit odd and unnerving about this person, especially their online activity and is something I've only started to notice recently.
I'd originally picked up on a few inconsistencies when my friend said certain things early on in our friendship. Just little things, but they were enough for me to take what they said with a pinch of salt. For example, they lied about attending a funeral, which I thought was very strange (I caught them out on this because they were unable to say where it had taken place and got town totally wrong). So yeh, that was very odd, but I didn't question it too much.
Since they moved abroad, they have accumulated quite a few friends in supposedly very high places in terms of their careers, while they are just a student still. These people constantly post on this person's facebook wall with 'funny' stories, 'banter' and demands to see this person, but when you take a closer look, their profiles are rather blank, you can't see their friends lists, their photos don't look like 'real' people (as in they look like they could be anyone, staged almost). I dunno, I just have this really odd gut feeling that all is not as it seems and, in a nutshell, these 'people' are fake profiles. Yes, they could just have high privacy settings, but like I said, there is this underlying feeling I have that they are not real.
What is really worrying though is some of these people have been died. I remember my friend telling me that someone close to them had died in horrific circumstances a year ago, and they had a Facebook profile that my friend had tagged. Yet nobody else seemed to know this person and had never met them.
Then there was my friend's 'significant other.' They were dating all the way throughout university, yet this person strangely did not have Facebook and none of my friend's closest friends or family had ever met this lover over the course of two years... There were all sorts of stories I'd be told about their relationship but no evidence that there ever was one. I dunno, again I had this very primal instinct that it was a fabricated lie, and there was no lover at all.
Again, a couple of months ago, there was lots of banter on their facebook wall between my friend and one of their 'new friends' abroad. One day, according to Facebook, apparently this person had died in an accident - yet the profile was still accessible. Now, again, I want to be very careful - I don't want to say my friend 'created' this person to begin with - but the manner of it was just so strange - the way my friend posted about their death - it didn't sound like they were shocked at all. You know, if you lose someone suddenly (and I have - a best friend) well, firstly, you don't post about it on FB, but if you do, you'd probably be in a state of shock. It wouldn't be a nonchalent status TAGGING the person in it?
What's even more worrying is that a quick google search of these people's names produces absolutely nothing at all. Doesn't that seem strange? That such young people died in very horrific circumstances and there's not even a news story about it? When I started to get really freaked out by all this was when I even (I'm ashamed to say, but what can I say, I was just too suspicious for my own good) did a 192.com search for all these characters in my friend's life - and no records were found at all.
Am I going crazy? Am I just too paranoid? Like I said, I really just wanted to post this because I can't discuss it with anyone. But since I started getting suspicious of these people in their life, and suddenly one day questioning whether they are even real, I got really freaked out given the dramatic nature of what has happened to some of them..I feel quite upset and shocked at myself - at myself because I have never ever in my life questioned such basic things of one of my friends. I feel very disloyal and mean thinking how I do, but it's just how I feel. I've never felt like everything is a lie before, and it's very unnerving.